xFallingAwayFromYoux Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 Hi I'm really confused at the moment, theres this guy i really like, I can't get him out of my head etc etc. Anyway I met him at work (I no longer work there it was only a part time thing) He's 5 years older than me (he's just about to turn 21 and I'm about to turn 16). Anyway on my last day of work I gave him my number to keep in toutch cos we got on well and I really liked him and got the sense that he liked me too as he was always looking at me etc, he seemed really pleased and kept in toutch via text and e-mail. A few weeks later I met up with him and we had a really nice night, as I was leaving he kissed me , of course I was really happy about this so later on I texted him thanking him for a nice night and asked what the kiss was about, he texted back saying I'm not sure what it was about I'm sorry it wont happen again, the age gap makes this a little difficult and I could end up in trouble but said we could still be friends n stuff. I saw bumped into him the other week when I was shopping with my friends and he seemed fine and pleased to see me, but since then he's been acting strange one minute he's excited to see me n stuff and the next he doesn't seem interested at all....what the hell do I do?! Really appreciate your help thanks .
Tony T Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 The mistake you made was asking him what the kiss was about. What was the purpose of asking that question??? You enoyed it...you said you did... Asking a guy a question like that is kind of embarassing and points up some immaturity on your part that could make him uncomfortable. In the future, if a guy kisses you just take it that he is very fond of you and wants to express his affection. You can surely bet that if you ask him why he did it he will likely be turned right off and not want to do it again. Don't kick yourself about this. We've all made big mistakes getting through this love stuff. It's a good thing you asked now so you won't do it again. When I was a teen there was no Internet so I didn't have all kinds of people to ask these kinds of questions. You're a lucky girl!
FredTravels Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 If you bumped into him shopping, was he alone or with some friends? If friends, and they put two and two together (or he told them about you) they may have given him a hard time...dude you're 21 what the hell are you doing messin' with a 16 yr old??? And that would be enough to make him run away.
Outcast Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 He probably likes you a lot but knows that you're way too young for him.
Guest Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 If you bumped into him shopping, was he alone or with some friends? If friends, and they put two and two together (or he told them about you) they may have given him a hard time...dude you're 21 what the hell are you doing messin' with a 16 yr old??? And that would be enough to make him run away. I'm 16, he's 21. He was with one of his friends, but his friend doesn't seem to be bothered about me. It probably was a mistake asking him what the kiss was for....would there be any way I could make this better? thanks for all the advice guys
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