Clone56 Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 OK here is the deal and let me tell you the stress has been almost to much. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and half. We fought alot but shared alot of wonderful moments together. She was kinda a rebound girlfriend at first from a long term relationship I was in. I moved away cause my ex girlfriend was moving back in my place cause I said I would move out. So i had to move in with some family that lived about a hour and half away. We did the long distance thing. Most of our fights were based around being apart cause she wanted me to move back but I needed to get my feet on the ground again. I lost my job shortly before i moved cause the company i worked for went bankrupt. Now, she is pregnant and things start getting crazy. I got a place on my own about 5 months before she got pregnant and she was going to move up with me. She was planing on moving up with me but now she says she doesnt want to move away from her mom cause she is pregnant. Ok little frustrated that we can spend this event together but I sucked it up and said ok, ill move back there. That meant I was moving away from my family and my job, but I was willing to make the sacrafice. About 4 months into she starts making threats towards me when we get into fights. Example she wanted to name the baby "mark" and I said I didnt like that name. She then was telling me she not going to allow the baby to get babtised. Im Christian and have alot of values in relgion and she does not. I was extremely mad when she said this towards me but I let it go. Then she starts to threaten me saying she wont let me see the baby if I dont get a job and move up there very soon. This is when I snaped. I dumped her and have very rarely spoken to her in the past month. Shes crys and appologies constantly saying she regrets saying all those things. Ok saying crazy things when your pregnant is one thing but threating to take my baby away is another. I just dont seam very happy around her anymore. It seams all we do is fight. We have had tons of good times together and its not like I dont care. Did I go to far? Should i let this go and try to work on things? I just dont know
Kirlin Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 id agree with you if she loved u shed allow you to see the baby sounds like she's using you for your money or something to support the kid
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