Player?

[Cherokee21]

A few months ago I was really unhappy with my abusive boyfriend and I met a guy from work. He had seen me with my boyfriend so he knew I had one, but he still chased me like it was nothing. I talked to this guy on the phone and he said he just got out of a 4yr reltionship and he has a kid, and I told him I was just unhappy with the way my boyfriend was treating me so I needed something to get away. He didn't like that I wanted cheat on my bf, and I didn't feel that good about it either. But as trashy as it is we made an agreement to use each other as a booty call.

 

So we did that for a while...and the chemistry was great but never personal i gues. We got along fine but I wasn't letting myself get attached, and he warned me not to get attached. But then he started inviting me to hang out with him and his friends all the time, or just come over during the day to see him. I knew he had girls on the side, and that he always sees his babys mama and that he is a self proclaimed man-whore/player so I kept trying not to let my guard down.

 

But I started getting to know him, and he was really supportive and helpful with everything that was going on with me... and I tried to help him out with all his babymama drama he had going on. He was saying he loved me, and that he wished I was all his, etc etc...and it might have been bull**** but I could tell that he genuinely felt bad about the way my boyfriend treats me. And then I started coming over more and more... and then sooon enough I told him I was completely through with my bf. And the calls slowed down a little but not too much... which didn't bother me alot because I was attached but not THAT attached yet.

 

But then I went over to his place one night really drunk.....and spilled a drink I had ALL over his laptop and his cell phone. I also told him a bunch of bull**** like "I just used you to get back at my bf" and all kinds of other stuff. Because the same day a girl at work who went to high school with him told me that he just plays nice girls..... and uses them as his holla back girl where he'll call them anytime he wants to just use them, for sex. And she said that I have no reason to be wasting my time with him because he is just trying to hold on to me the closest because I'm the prettiest and nicest girl hes ever been with. (his friends also told me this too.) But I was pissed with all of this in the back of my head....so I just said a ton of stuff I didn't mean...because I do like him.

 

But I felt bad so I tried to call him the next day and apologize but he wasn't having it. His phone had water damage, so he called me about that, I replaced the phone...bought him a brand new one. And he said the laptop was ok. He was very sweet, but still bitter of course. Welll soon enough after he got his phone, the calls stopped and the excuses started and I never saw him and work anymore (he would usually say hi) and I found out that he was with a new girl....who was doing the same thing, staying over every nite, etc etc. So I left him alone and tried so hard to get over him. I still texted him and told him I missed him and sweated him when I SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN.

 

But my question is, I got a text the other day....from him THANKING me for spilling on his laptop because now its fried and has water damage and he lost pics of his daughter. I told him I was sorry, bc I really really am.... and then he started being all sweet. And I told him I would replace it...and hes being even nicer. So basically he is just trying to use me and be nice to me when he wants something.....right.....? Or does he just always feel bad for me. He has a NEW girlfriend....not the girl after me...and new one, and this whole deal has been about 4 months including me. What do you guys think about this? What is this guys deal? Did he fall for me and run away?? Or does he know just what he is doing?