UT_longhorn Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 hi everyone. just wanted to check back here to see how everyone is doing. it is a friday and hope that everyone will try to go out and have some sort of fun in order to try to get your ex out of your mind. when i was out and about with friends, it would help push thoughts of the ex to the back corners of my mind. i ran into the ex a week ago, after about 5 months of absolutely no contact. it was cordial. it was awkward. but i wasn't torn about it. yes, it did pull on some of those emotional heartstrings pretty hard, but after a day, i could walk it off. i realized...she doesn't deserve my love. im just waaaay too good for this girl. and me and her were just not meant to be. it does help you realize things. a word of encouragement guys and gals...i know EVERYONE says this, but it really..really will get better. I honestly did not believe I would get better. Its a little forward today, a little backwards tomorrow maybe, but you'll make progress. enjoy yourself. you have breath. you have health. you have food. you have sunshine. you have music. you have stars. you have freedom. take this situation as an opportunity. the world is yours. stand up and rock it.
burning 4 revenge Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 holy sh*t, today is Friday. I totally thought it was Thursday
magichands Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 it is a friday and hope that everyone will try to go out and have some sort of fun in order to try to get sex out of your mind. when i was out and about with friends, it would help push thoughts of sex to the back corners of my mind. Thanks for trying to cheer us all up.
KittenMoon Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 Oh yeah. My Friday night: Went out with our.... no, now MY friends. He has shunned them entirely for no discernable reason, despite years of hanging out, birthdays, and even weddings with these people. Went out w/ the friends to the store to get a going away present for other friends. Bought a DVD I had been wanting..... which also happened to be my ex's fav cartoon. Met up with other friends for dinner where we discussed a fav bar nearby.... that we went with my ex to. Went to a mini golf place to play video games... where we all used to go, including my ex and I. Played a shooting game w/ my friend's little bro.... one I used to play with my ex. Turned in our tickets to get crap prizes for the friend's little bro... got reminded of the time I picked out a little plastic dinosaur for my ex at another arcade. He still has it. He still has everything I gave him. That goddamn plastic dinosaur did it for me.... Goining out w/ friends to get over the ex? Yeah right. While out I'm just bombarded with thousands of memories my meticulous brain likes to keep bring up. Moments in time that would otherwise have no meaning. Restaurants we ate at. Streets we drove on. Everything has an association. Apparently to forget him I have to move out of this city I love and never ever do anything I like to do ever again. Because I did it all with him. Rant. Sorry. At least I feel more angry than miserable right now...
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