BatteredByLove Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Hey guys, I don't know what I'm doing right now so I hoping that LS can help me on that road. After my gf broke up with me, I turned to LS, and god if it wasn't for you guys.... I'd be dead.... lol. But I've been in NC with her for about a month or so now, it was after she breaking NC with a few emails, just casual emails, then the "I wanna be friends" part with you came from her and I calmly replied that I do want to be her friend, I just need time right now because I still have feelings for her, and that if she does goes out with a guy, it'll hurt me like hell so I just needed time to heal before I can be friends. Well with that said and done, she replied saying that she doesn't know if she wants to be my friend or not and that I shouldn't expect too much out of her. She then says that she is currently dating someone, and that I wouldnt care for details so she won't give me any. I then replied to her that I don't expect anything from her and that "As for the friend part, I would be there for her whenever she needed me, that's all", and that we're still young and have a whole life ahead of us. I'm 17, she's 16, so yea, young-uns . That was the last time we had contact. Now to the breaking the NC part... I subscribed to an online e-cards thing, and tomorrow is "Rain Day". She loves the rain and I was thinking of sending an e-card, no emotions or anything, just wishing her a happy "Rain Day." I dont' know if I should do this or not...
johnnytable Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Don't do it. She isn't being very nice to you by expecting to be your friend one month after a breakup (my ex did the same thing) and especially not nice given that she is telling you about some other guy. Time to move on from this one.
Ariadne Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Hi, She loves the rain and I was thinking of sending an e-card, no emotions or anything, just wishing her a happy "Rain Day." I dont' know if I should do this or not... Yeah, break NC. The hell with NC. LOL Ariadne
tearful_soul22 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 By all means..go for it, send her the card. Just don't make it a habit though..since you're still on N/C. She might interpret your gesture as something other than. Take care of yourself!
trebon Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Send the card but make sure that is it. Keep the NC up. Good luck
Author BatteredByLove Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Thanks guys, I love you guys on LS ya'll are the best!!! If it wasn't for ya'll.... I'd be one sick wimpy guy right now . Yea, so I'm just going to send it and wish her a happy "Rain Day", that's all.
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