Why are a lot of women wimpy?

[johan]

...She could have been hit by a bus.

 

Good point! And if she was, you don't want her anyway. Especially if it was head-on. ESPECIALLY if it was the Ugly Bus! You don't want a chick who has been hit head on by the Ugly Bus.

[amaysngrace]

You don't want a chick who has been hit head on by the Ugly Bus.

 

Nope you don't...getting hit with the ugly bus gives a girl butter face.

[FredTravels]

OMG what if it was a SHORT UGLY bus?????

[serial muse]

Yes it is....and I'll tell u why. Cause many people go out on dates and have fun and flirt and laugh and then have no intention to see that person again. Sometimes you can't tell, especially with women because they are so good at "faking it".

 

So the test is to say nothing about a subsequent date. And then call the person and see if they agree to another meeting.

 

See, CLYNN....its very hard for some people to say "No" to someone else's face.

 

This is a pretty good point actually. Good one alpha. I don't know what I would have thought about this topic before recently re-entering the dating world, but based on recent experiences I think there's a lot of truth to it (and it works both ways - both men and women do it).

 

But I must disagree with #1...I love being walked to the door. :love: It doesn't give too much away - #2 still applies there. But it's just so classy and delightful, and unexpected nowadays. Makes me feel very feminine.

[Walk]

I'm the opposite. I feel pressured if the guy tries to set up a second date before we even finish the first. I mean, it's an ego boost if he does... but I like to kind of absorb the first date, before promising a second.

 

I agree though that women need to be more upfront about their intentions. Any woman whose had a guy not call her back should know how disturbing it feels to be left in the dark. You'd think they'd realize that it hurts more to have that happen, then a simple "no thank you" would hurt them.