Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Hmm, Aren't you the one who was assulted by a previous boyfriend and taken advantage of by the kind police man who lied about being married. Seems your judgment is a bit off to begin with. Be careful. My ex NEVER assaulted me. If he did, he would be in jail. The police man helped me, and asked me out on a date. He was perfectly charming, and kind, and lied straight to my face. Anyone of any age could have been fooled by this manipulative man. My judgement can only play apart when I actually speak to the man from the lecture. On a date (in a public place). Like most humans. But I need to get to that date first. Which involved meeting him. However it was I chose to do that. You can't win in life if you don't take risks. This thread isn't about me, or my judgements (we all make mistakes, and get burnt by people- it's called living) it is about whether or not my actions were too foward, or just forward enough! I am happy to see many men on here enjoy this powerful, sexually dominant woman. It shouldn't be percieved as a slur on his masculinity, just a compliment of it
johan Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 i don't get this. i'm actually a pretty shy guy at first and most of the relationships i've been in have been initiated by the girl. how is that psycho? I don't make a lot of moves myself. I didn't say any girl who makes the first move is a psycho. I'm not saying Pink is. It depends on the approach and the signals the girl gives off. I am saying that doing random strangers in public and looking for more can appear a bit more hormonal and maybe short on judgment. Trying to get to know someone for real, I have no problem with. For examplel, I personally thought Samantha on Sex in the City was a repulsive character. I didn't care that she was pretty or smart or successful.
Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Haha- is it any surprise how much I love her
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I don't make a lot of moves myself. I didn't say any girl who makes the first move is a psycho. I'm not saying Pink is. It depends on the approach and the signals the girl gives off. I am saying that doing random strangers in public and looking for more can appear a bit more hormonal and maybe short on judgment. Trying to get to know someone for real, I have no problem with. For examplel, I personally thought Samantha on Sex in the City was a repulsive character. I didn't care that she was pretty or smart or successful. agreed. but samantha used men as sex objects. i think it's fine for both genders to use each other to get off in their youth, but after a certain age it's very unbecoming and hollow.
Outcast Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 And in the end Samantha fell in love, suffered a bout of breast cancer, and didn't she end up hitched (blanking out on the last episode now).
Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Yes I agree. Her promiscuity in quantative figures was a bit repulsive.
tinktronik Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I too tend to be rather forward in my approach . I have had men stutter and unsure as to what to say .this is not a new thing, women that are agressive have always been around .Just not every woman is this agressive.Pink , there is nothing wrong with it .I find that if you don't make the first move , the first move will never be made , and if a guy is intimidated by my approach , he probably would not suit me very well anyway.
lovestruck234 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I guess every guy is different. I know of some guys in the past who I have been with who have said they were captured by my sweetness and innocence, other say they were captured by my confidence and outgoing nature. I guess every girl is different too. I would NEVER approach a guy the way you did, Pink. Never. I don't have THAT many guts, but then again, give my few drinks and that may be a different story... My bf tells me he likes it when I'm demanding and in control. He reckons he gets turned on by that. Some other guys would rather them be in control. Majority of guys love it when a girl makes a first move, yet, given that there is conversation and the acknowledment of one another beforehand. Whereas in your situation, it is suggested you hadn't really spoken to him beforehand?? It's all good if you can just make a move on someone like that without really knowing them, but I think, this is just MY opinion, a guy would kind of freak out. I think, yes, they would find it intimidating and somewhat too over-powering, if you will. BUT, like my statement above, some guys like that. If he didn't bother messaging you, he probably wasn't interested. But he did so he's probably curious. That's just my 2 cents and my opinion, that doesn't make it right, but that's what I am led to believe....
CrushedOrgans Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 You would see this in a movie only. that's not true. every guy i've gone after could tell you that it doesn't only happen in the movies.
johan Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I've been giving this some thought. I guess I'd have to see it in action to know for sure. If Pink and/or Lovestruck were to make a move on me, or maybe on each other, then I'm sure I could make a more fair evaluation. Like I said. It depends a LOT on the circumstances.
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I've been giving this some thought. I guess I'd have to see it in action to know for sure. If Pink and/or Lovestruck were to make a move on me, or maybe on each other, then I'm sure I could make a more fair evaluation. Like I said. It depends a LOT on the circumstances. i don't know how far canberra is from new south wales, but it would certainly make an interesting avatar
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 if there are any red-blooded males involved in the LS administration, they would restore the old rules for that avatar
lovestruck234 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 i don't know how far canberra is from new south wales, but it would certainly make an interesting avatar Canberra is in New South Wales...
johan Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I feel like a matchmaker. Yes I agree. Her promiscuity in quantative figures was a bit repulsive. Yes. Just don't be like that.
lovestruck234 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I've been giving this some thought. I guess I'd have to see it in action to know for sure. If Pink and/or Lovestruck were to make a move on me, or maybe on each other, then I'm sure I could make a more fair evaluation. Like I said. It depends a LOT on the circumstances. I am not the type of girl who approaches men like Pink. I am much more....conservative, if you will. I wish I had that amount of confidence, but I'm just constantly worried of getting cut down. Besides, I haven't had to worry about that for quite a while since I have my beautiful boyfriend!!!
Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Haha- wow an interesting turn. I guess in my two past professions, both as a model, and now a journalist, it would be ridiculous to fathom coping without being a bit of an extrovert!
magichands Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I guess in my two past professions, both as a model, Being a model is a profession?! Just kidding. I'm just jealous because I look like something the cat dragged in. I would most definitely get out of bed for less than USD$10,000 a day. Hey - I'd get out of bed for a free cup of coffee. And a chocolate biscuit.
Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Haha- yes I use the term 'profession' loosely in that instance - I am sure you are attractive magichands. You don't need to be a model to be hot! As I said, Mark (lecture guy) and I have arranged a date. He sent me a message saying "When you walked in... damn... but in all seriousness why me!? My friends don't even believe me! I didn't think women like you existed!" - so perhaps he appreciated my foward nature after all!
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 i do have to say girls as hot as you usually aren't as forward the girls who dated me weren't hot so they had to be sometimes
Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Stop before my head gets bigger! What do you men they wern't so hot so they had to be sometimes? Had to be what? Extroverted? Why exactly?
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 they wouldn't be pursued as much as i said in another post you responded to, my ex had 70 plus lovers in her life. she was very forward and easy and i think part of it was she wasn't that great looking. she was sexy and guys would take a piece of cake if it was offered, but it isn't like it was standing room only
Author Pink Amulet Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Being forward and being easy are to very different concepts B4R. What I want to know is if guys prefer the chase, as opposed to having a woman being direct with her intentions? (I don't just mean sexual intentions)
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