AloneForever Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 So, i've been thinking .... 3 months has passed since my ex left me, and i must say i'm better, still not over her, but i'm certainly in a more better state then a month ago. Anyways, like i said, i've been thinking ... let's just forget the fact that i can't get dates I KNOW i won't find anyone outhere like her, cause even when we were together i was saying to myself - damn, this is the girl of my dreams - and thats true ... she was exactly my type, everything what i look for in a girl, she had. Since i'm pretty sure there is no girl like her (for me) ... and i'm not saying this from a biased point of view.. Cause i look at other girls, talk to them ... get to know them ... curently with no intentions for a relationship or similar crap as i'm not fully healed .... And i don't see something i could like in them, they're all different ... have different goals, different view on love, like different things then me, etc. And i know i just wouldn't be happy with them nor would they be happy with me. So, what to do? accept the fact you're going to be alone for the rest of your life, or just go into meaningless realtionships "not" be alone? Has anyone else felt this way? Just a phase? Or a reality? And please no that "you're 20, you have your whole life ahead of you" crap Love sucks:(
magichands Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 So, what to do? accept the fact you're going to be alone for the rest of your life, Accepting it makes life easier. Oh - and choose a really dramatic screen name, to reinforce your plight. Join the lonely hearts club. It's a club of one (I know - I'm a member). But the upside is - I don't have to share my chocolate!!!! Yay. I'm a little hard-hearted to say it, but - in time - maybe you will realise that what you had wasn't really that special. Life goes on. And anything can happen (if you let it).
Diver012 Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 So, i've been thinking .... 3 months has passed since my ex left me, and i must say i'm better, still not over her, but i'm certainly in a more better state then a month ago. Anyways, like i said, i've been thinking ... let's just forget the fact that i can't get dates I KNOW i won't find anyone outhere like her, cause even when we were together i was saying to myself - damn, this is the girl of my dreams - and thats true ... she was exactly my type, everything what i look for in a girl, she had. Since i'm pretty sure there is no girl like her (for me) ... and i'm not saying this from a biased point of view.. Cause i look at other girls, talk to them ... get to know them ... curently with no intentions for a relationship or similar crap as i'm not fully healed .... And i don't see something i could like in them, they're all different ... have different goals, different view on love, like different things then me, etc. And i know i just wouldn't be happy with them nor would they be happy with me. So, what to do? accept the fact you're going to be alone for the rest of your life, or just go into meaningless realtionships "not" be alone? Has anyone else felt this way? Just a phase? Or a reality? And please no that "you're 20, you have your whole life ahead of you" crap Love sucks:( Its just a phase. I felt it. Its not a feeling that lasts forever. I found myself with a woman that was everything I ever wanted. Smart, funny, caring, attractive, loving. Till... she became Cold, silent, evasive, negative, insulting. Im not sure how long you dated your Ex. I dont know why you broke up. But maybe she wasnt everything you thought she was. Maybe, your seeing the other side of her, that isnt very nice. If you accept the fact that you can love someone like this again, then you will.
burning 4 revenge Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 cold, silent, evasive, negative, insulting so it is all women
magichands Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 cold, silent, evasive, negative, insulting so it is all women That's just the best bits. You know you like it.
norajane Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 Well...you are 20...you're not going to want the same things at 25 that you do now, nor at 35. So maybe your ex feels right *now* but in a few years when you yourself want different things from your life, and your life experiences change you, you'll want a different kind of woman.
westernxer Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 I can't think of anything else to say, other than you're 20, and you have your whole life ahead of you.
magichands Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 I can't think of anything else to say, other than you're 20, and you have your whole life ahead of you. I agree with his crap.
amaysngrace Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 Accepting it makes life easier. Oh - and choose a really dramatic screen name, to reinforce your plight. And I agree with yours.
Guest Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 Lifes situations at best during a misunderstanding or breakup at best is full of emotions. As to the why. or what not. Anyway, I never believed that I would of fallen for a situation that truly opened my eyes to many many ideals and the ways of hard knocks. I guess I played the know it all, but in reality I did not. In retrospect, I honestly believe that I fell into a way of life I was not prepared for but sadly fell into a headspin. Yet, I disagree with some that I was the culprit for hurt or prolonged confusion that resulted with negativity or hurting others. This is not my presumed action or idea. Personally I just need to regroup let some time come to a spell and let live with my own stupid belief. I just was the outsider and basically ignorant to the claims. I paid dearly and feel very badly about the turnout. I hope and pray others in the life that I came about will realize that I am not the end all or the 'bad seed' that may seem but just want to start my life on a new leaf so to speak and wish for the best. I feel badly about everything. Why? Dumb and dumber I guess. Feeling hopeless is my norm lately and I dont' feel well. I am alone with the desparate feelings of loss and need time to reflect on where things got out of hand. You know what I mean? Tomorrow is a new day and I hope others never forget to tell those you love you love them because sometime you just don't have it in you to say goodbye when you least expect it. Life goes on and I know in my heart it will but for the moment it doesn't feel that way... Take care you all, and of each other. God Bless.
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