unsafe Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 I have been dating a guy for three months. We have been living together for 9 months. We were friends and roommates first and fell for each other. He is still all over me and being lovey but it seems the past couple of days in bed he doesn't wake up and spoon me like he was. I don't feel him close to me? am I just freaking out, or does this mean something about his feelings. Like they are changing? I'm falling for him hard and I feel like my heart is on the line. He hasn't told me he loves me and maybe he doesn't. Which is fine its still early in the relationship. But I'm scared of getting hurt. I like him so much! Anywa advice
Sally00 Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 ya'll have only been dating for 3 months. and roommates for 9 months (wow, roommates with a guy)... but anyways, it's just spooning. you can't expect him to do the same thing over and over again. try not to expect so much so fast.
magichands Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 If you want affection, then you might want to try to show that. Go snuggle!
Heavenseventeen Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 I would rather have a man who waits until he really loves me to say it, than a man who says it for the sake of it and doesn't mean a single word. He was nice, but why don't you show some gratitude and swoon him the way he swooned you for a while. It's natural that after a while, the honeymoon period goes down, otherwise you are dealing with lust that will eventually fizzle out and leave nothing. Whenever you date someone, your heart is always on the line. But if we all sat and worried about that constantly, we'd miss the good times (even if they are short lived). Plus, we could end up driving the other person away. Just enjoy being with him. He sounds so nice.
Author unsafe Posted July 26, 2006 Author Posted July 26, 2006 Thank you! I totally agree I'm being retarded. Things are good with us and I don't know why I feel like he is losing feelings, I know he cares about me alot. Thanks again!
hchris6738k Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 he has feelings for you, of course, but guys are different from girls in which guys want their physical space more, besides they get hot and sweaty. so be happy when he cuddles with you once in awhile. give him space, but once in awhile you try spooning him and see if he rejects you or not. this advise came from my son narrating to me, because i asked his opinion!
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