Guest Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 so i really dont understand them.this guy i was crazy about broke up with me february last year, after that we didnt speak he completely broke my heart, then christmas he got intouch so we started sort of seeing each other a bit,and by seeing i mean the occasional naughty stuff,then all contact got lost when he lost his mob and we didnt speak from april onwards. he got intouch with me on saturday with the message "i miss you,so thought id say hello, sorry if this messes you up but ive been thinking about you for weeks and just had to say it" he then moved onto saying messing me about was the worse thinbg hes ever done, he called up and asked me to go see a movie with him and catch up so on saturday i did, it was great felt just like old times. we went back to his flat and just chilled, and we just got talking and he kept sayting he needed me and wanted to be with me and stuff... half way through his mate turned up, but he handed me a piece of paper saying "i love u" i went round on sunday and stayed the night, stuff happened but at the same time he was so sweet and loving towards me..something hes never done. i text him last night asking what was going on with us and he said he didnt know and we'd talk at the weekend (he works nights and has weekedns off).i was hurt by this cause his feelings were pointing towards us being together. i text him saying fair enough but if you decide you dont want me tell me before the weekend cuz it wont hurt as much..he replied with "i want you,you just confuse me tho!" since lastr night ive not heard off him and havent text either. im so confused as to why ive confused him tho, fair enuff i spoke about an ex but he asked about it,i answered the phone to my ex a couple times,but im not sure if it bothered him or not?im just so confused as to what ive done to make him confused...he knows i want hima nd him only..always have done... can anyone offer any advice? am i just being stupid thinking he really wants me again? sorry its so long
rina_r Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 Looks like he wants to have the cake and eat it too. It is not YOU who confuses him, he just cannot make the decision between being single on his own and f**** you occasionally or being in a relationship. Is he under 20? Behaves like a child.
Heavenseventeen Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 He's obviously messing you about- to make it worse, he even admitted to it. Go out and find someone who will love you truly, madly deeply like you love them. The right person for you (as in the person who will treat you right) is out there looking for you...meanwhile, you won't get to meet them if you're wasting your time with this loser. He wants to be in control. Don't let him. Dump him now. Don't bother listening to his petty excuses, because you will be pulled right back in and you'll end up back on this forum asking us the same question. He just wants to sex. I would to tell him to get it from somewhere else. P.S. Don't apologise about it being too long.
Recommended Posts