Justconfused Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 Long story short, My girlfriend has a page on nexopia. She left it open on my computer and i was curious to see what it was and i scrolled down to the bottom and alot of guys were msging her , One of the stuck out though, he said "I had a great time last weekend, You got some sexy dance moves". Also her friends list is filled with guys i have never met and are 4-10 years older and these guys have "DRINKING and clubbing" as their interests. I trust my girlfriend, We go to the club alot together but I own my own contracting company and sometimes i need to be up very early to get my workforce going, So i tell her to go out with her girlfriends and she says "Thats cool, i just go with my girlfriends to dance together". But to my understanding now she is going and getting guys contact information. I really find that kind of behavior inappropriate and unacceptable. I confronted her and she admitted she meets guys at the bar. I told her that nexopia goes or it's over. I just feel like my trust has been violated and i dont feel that it's fair that now i need to worry about her talking to guys behind my back. She has plenty of guy friends, but she brings them around me! These guys are hidden and makes me suspicious. So am i right?
magichands Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 I told her that nexopia goes or it's over. I think that you need to communicate the fact that you are uncomfortable about this, rather than flying off the handle - and demanding something. Talk to her.
Sally00 Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 If my boyfriend was keeping a lot of contact information of girls, I'd be pissed. You're not alone. I don't know why she is keeping things like that. But honestly, wouldn't you expect that kind of behavior from someone going to clubs all the time? She sure seems like the party girl... Talk to her some more... that if she keeps this up, ya'll are through.
confused423 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 agrees with sally... your totally in the right here.
rina_r Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 When I am with someone, I try to go out with this person unless he is away and my girlfriends ask me out. I dont find the behaviour of your g/f appropriate.
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