after 18 years spouse states she wants out

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My wife and I have been married for 18 years and have two children (10 and 5). in the last 9 mounths she has lost 35+ pounds and in the last two months have been getting gotten a new hair style and been getting her nails done weekly. She been wearing extreamly revealing outfits that show a lot and if not most of her breasts that brings a lot of attention. She states that where ever she goes both store employees and/or even customers help her where before, she never had that. she is 38 years old and feels she had missed out on some action.

 

I love her with all my heart and have always been there for her. She not sure if she is going through a mid age crieses or what. Recently I have found she has been on adult online meetings with other people and have been showing pictures of her body along along with pictures of just her face and having detailed sexual conversations. She states that its just for fun conversation and I will get the rewards. However, recently she does not allow me to touch her sexually or if I do, very limited. SHe has also said she loves me but when she states told me she just does not have the right feelings and I asked her about why she tells me she loves me she says she meant she loves me not as a spouse but as a friend? If feel played by her using loop holes.

 

She said she would not go right into another relationship but does not admit she would not date. meaning she would be dating almost immediately. I have found recently where she had been meeting other people from the online adult chat in person but she denies this even though I know she had acturally met them in person and have called them to on our personal phone.

 

She stated she's not sure but she loves it when others notices her despite my every efforts of telling her how great she looks. SHe also likes the feel as one would have when the first date and has been checking out the veriety of different guys who are available along with their nude pics of the men who are between 35 and 45. SHe is 38. I love her and dont want to loose her. Any ideas of what is going on with her?

[tearza]

My wife and I have been married for 18 years and have two children (10 and 5). in the last 9 mounths she has lost 35+ pounds and in the last two months have been getting gotten a new hair style and been getting her nails done weekly. She been wearing extreamly revealing outfits that show a lot and if not most of her breasts that brings a lot of attention. She states that where ever she goes both store employees and/or even customers help her where before, she never had that. she is 38 years old and feels she had missed out on some action.

 

I love her with all my heart and have always been there for her. She not sure if she is going through a mid age crieses or what. Recently I have found she has been on adult online meetings with other people and have been showing pictures of her body along along with pictures of just her face and having detailed sexual conversations. She states that its just for fun conversation and I will get the rewards. However, recently she does not allow me to touch her sexually or if I do, very limited. SHe has also said she loves me but when she states told me she just does not have the right feelings and I asked her about why she tells me she loves me she says she meant she loves me not as a spouse but as a friend? If feel played by her using loop holes.

 

She said she would not go right into another relationship but does not admit she would not date. meaning she would be dating almost immediately. I have found recently where she had been meeting other people from the online adult chat in person but she denies this even though I know she had acturally met them in person and have called them to on our personal phone.

 

She stated she's not sure but she loves it when others notices her despite my every efforts of telling her how great she looks. SHe also likes the feel as one would have when the first date and has been checking out the veriety of different guys who are available along with their nude pics of the men who are between 35 and 45. SHe is 38. I love her and dont want to loose her. Any ideas of what is going on with her?

 

From Tearza: Do you give your wife a lot of attention? Do you tell her you love her and that she is beautiful? Often? Before she lost the weight? She may be going through a mid-life crisis, but it seems like she has been emotionally neglected in some way. Before all this stuff started, did you all have good sex? Women are going through a sexual prime at this age; they need lots of attention from the spouse,flowers, physical activity. What is your body like? She probably loves you but may be sexually frustrated in some way.