lovely22 Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 Ok here it goes....I am in a relationship where I feel there are some things that my boyfriend does that I don't agree with. For example there is this dating website that he goes on everyday where in his profile it states that he's single, I asked him if he could either change his relationships status or take the profile completely off. It's like it doesn't matter how I feel about it, he still goes on this site anyway, and his status still remains single. There has been a few times where I caught him talking to females giving out his name and telephone number. Now am I overreacting when I say that this makes me feel uncomfortable. He tells me he doesn't find it a big deal, it's just his way of flirting with other females just to see if he still got it. There are even times where he would go onto this site in front of my face knowing that it bothers me, he would talk to females as if I am not even there, now isn't that disrespectful? Another incident happened where I was told that on his birthday he went to this amusement park with his ex (the same one who tried to attack me twice). It's funny because two days prior to hearing that's where he went I was putting his pants into the dirty clothes bin so I had to clear out his pocket and there was a ticket to the amusement park his cousin told me he went to. So I confronted him and he tells me no that's no true, I asked him where did the ticket come from and he tells me he doesn't know how it got there. Now how do you not know how something go into your pocket, it's not like someone else wears his clothes. Now the whole problem here is he promised that he wouldn't talk to his ex because she has to much drama, and also because of what happened (this girl is dangerous). So it would really be a problem if he had went out with this girl because then that tells me he's been lying all this time. So I am still bothered by that, but it's like what more can I say? Last incident: I come over to his house to come spend time with him and I notice that for the last few nights he would leave me here and come home the next morning around 4 and 5 o' clock in the morning. If I wanted to sleep alone I would have stayed home. It's like he has no respect for my feelings whatsoever. I have tried talking to him, and obviously that doesn't work, I even try being silent but that hurts me more because I want him to know how he's making me feel when he does these things. Is it me, am I jumping to conclusions? Should I be upset?
a4a Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 Are you for real??? If so...... you need some self esteem ASAP. The guy totally lies, neglects you, and you hang out and wait for more of this kind of treatment from him. You are not his girl friend you are just a piece of furniture to him. Something to use that is in his life. dump him..... and get some help to deal with your self esteem issues........ self worth.... value.........
rina_r Posted July 26, 2006 Posted July 26, 2006 Get rid of this loser! You dont need to be a doormat.
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