Sen Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 I have been married for 15 years. Have two kids 13 , 15 years old. It has become apparent since the kids have started to create some of their own space, the space left over for my wife and I to revel in has become a place that is very uncomfortable. We have tried councilling for 8 months and a priest. My wife was a stay at home mom. I started and created a successful business. I know that I have grown and changed alot of my thoughts beliefs and desires because of the world that exists around me. My wife has not changed and has infact regressed into a shadowy image of her parents. I am looking to find ground to move forward on and I cannot find any. I feel trapped and full of guilt feeling that I need to separate myself from her. I feel that our separation could help me define my own personal desires and see if space does exist for us to re-connect. I am tired as is my wife and our kids are suffering for the consequences of our apparent indifference in our relationship. Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated
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