Guest Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 I've been seeing a guy for about two weeks now. Everything has been great and we are very open with each other about all topics. We have only held hands and kissed (not heavy duty stuff). We are now progressing towards heavy petting (or whatever it's called these days) He/we joke about sex or making out and he has always told me how he is very affectionate and loves kissing and cuddling. I thought for sure the other night would be our first time that we would lay together and make out. We have agreed not to make love because it's too early. Just holding and touching etc... So he comes over for the first time, right away plops himself down on the couch and tells me to come sit with him. We were laughing and cuddling and then he started to kiss me...we layed down and the kissing became more heavy...but only for like 15 seconds...and then he sat up and wispered "we better stop". No problem..but it has happened again since. I get like 15 seconds of passionate kissing..then he stops, sits up and starts talking instead. He will kiss me again..but only short ones not passionate ones. I know he really likes me..he tells me all the time how beautiful I am and how attracted he is to me. In my past relationships I've had no problem with a man making out without sex. He talked about cuddling, kissing..so I don't understand what's going on except maybe is he getting aroused to quickly? Meaning is he going to cum in his pants? Or should I say pre-mature ej..Or blue balls? LOL I shouldn't laugh..but we haven't even held each other longer then a minute. He has been married with kids so he's had sex before. Why does he keep stopping right away? How will we get to know each other physically if he keeps stopping. Should I gently bring it up to him? OR will this scare him? Any suggestions..or insight..Thanks
Outcast Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 maybe is he getting aroused to quickly? Meaning is he going to cum in his pants? That would be my guess.
Sally00 Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 My guess is that he gets aroused way too easily... Man, I'm glad I don't have a penis
lovestruck234 Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 Next time, pull him back on top of you and keep kissing him. Tell him it's ok if he cums, that you like that you can turn him on that much just by kissing him. Encourage him to keep going.... Even talk to him about it. Instead of asking us. He'll tell you the real reason. Maybe he's scared that if he goes any further that his little friend will take over and he won't be able to control himself....
AwkwardMan Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 wth? Guy is going to cum in his pants from making out? Is this common behavior? 1 minute, 15 seconds, all of these are unusually short. I'd say 10 minutes to about forty minutes on average is much more typical.
jessssss Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 sounds like he's afraid of getting too aroused and losing control of the situation...i've had a guy cum in his pants just from heavy kissing and me laying on top of him...(lol i acted like i didn't notice it...but it was a lot lol .sorry) i'd say just pull him back on you or you on him and continue...he's going to ahve to get over that...you should be able to make out for longer than 1.5 mins without it "going too far" or "we better stop"
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