zooyorkcity Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 I have a opposite sex friend who I have known for about 6-7 years. I used to like her and I thought she was feeling me until I realized that she was just a really flirty girl in general. She ended up getting a boyfriend about 5 years ago and I ended up w/ a girlfriend 3 years ago. We are both still with our bf/gf's to this day. She has been in a rocky relationship lately. Here's the catch, when we talk online, she loves to talk about sex and things that I feel like we shouldn't be talking about. We end up having long conversations about our intimate lives and to be honest it kind of turns me on. We never speak about doing anything together, but rather about what we do with our bf/gf's. But, when we hang out in person, we don't speak anything of this at all. I only hang out with her maybe once a month or so... Anyway, my question is if anyone thinks she could possibly want to do something with me? I'm a little confused by the way she acts. She is a little flirty with guys, but I'm not sure if she talks to all guys the same way. I completely did not have feelings for her for about 4-5 years since she's been with her boyfriend. Right now, I'm not sure if I should just stop talking to her completely or if its just her nature to be this way. She's been a great friend throughout the years and I don't want to lose her as a friend. Please help
Tony T Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Your girlfriend might just be sitting next to her at the computer while this other girl is talking sexy with you...just for entertainment...haha! She's just having fun with you and no more. Why not adopt a code of ethical conduct as of right now. If you're going to flirt and talk sex with a female online and wonder if it's going to go somewhere, break up with your girlfriend. It simply isn't fair to your girl for her to be loyal to a guy who is obviously looking for action elsewhere. Once you are totally free, you will find hundreds of girls on and off the Internet who will talk sex with you and take it to a level that will make your thing quite happy!
hchris6738k Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 it's hard to say, if she is serious about really wanting to have a sexual relationship with you, or if she is just excited about the fact that even though you have a girlfriend, you still talk to her like this!-it makes her feel kind of powerful! when i read your post, i wondered if your girlfriend is aware that you 2 are talking about sex like this, if she knows and you didn't keep it a secret from her then that is ok, if she dosn't know and this is your secret afair of the hearts (or,other body parts!?) then that is cheating! even if you never really carry out anything with the internet girl, it is still cheating if your girlfriend dosn't know, if i found out (and the other one always does!!) that my bf was doing that secretly, that would be it with us, no discussion-nothing to talk about,the trust is gone!
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