miket389 Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 hey all, im new to this site, i signed up cuz i need help, ive been a rebound twice before when i really cared about a girl and it crushed me, recently ive been seeing a girl that ive known for a bout a month, she is just out of a bad relationship with her ex of 7 years, ive expressed myself to her, and weve agreed to take things slow, but its hard because theres a lot of chemistry between the two of us, im really scared to lose her, i just don't know what to do, the other night she asked me if i could ever love her, and i said yes, and she said yes to me, she asked me what we are, i told her i know what i want us to be but i don't think shes ready yet, i just need advice here, shes told me ive already won her and other things to reassure me, she also has said she doesn't want to rush into anything right away, basically im scared of her getting back with her ex or something else, even tho she tries to reassure me im scared i don't want to be a rebound again, any advice would help me, i want it to work this time....
Sally00 Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Hmmm... well all I can think of is take your time... like you said, take things slowly.
Author miket389 Posted July 25, 2006 Author Posted July 25, 2006 ik , but taking it slow is so vague, i mean i want to take things slow and so does she, but when i talked to her yesterday and said i was just gonna be at home and do some stuff around the house, she called about an hour later wanting me to go see her, so i did, its hard , i find myself thinking about her all the time, should i take the initiative and back off a little or would she take that as rejection? like not calling her letting her call me stuff like that, im a nervous wreck, but when im around her im happy
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