v551wolf Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 I am 16. I have been with my girlfriend, who is also, 16, for nine months now. We both love each other very much. A long time ago I thought of other girls and stuff, so I lost her trust. I have been working very hard at fixing everything and regaining her trust because I love her. Things have been going well up until recently. We both went to a summer camp and I met this girl there who is attractive and nice and shares some pretty uncommon interests with me. I just want her to be a friend but I am afraid I might start liking her or something WHICH I DON'T WANT TO HAPPEN. I love my girlfriend so much and I am just scared I will become interested in this girl unintentionally. What should I do?! I love my girlfriend so much and I don't want this girl to be any more than a good friend. I would also appreciate any sort of advice on how to gain my girlfriend's trust back. I just recently hurt it again because I thought about this girl without meaning to and I told my girlfriend about it. How do I regain someone's trust?
Sally00 Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Maybe it's not such a good idea to be friends with that new camp girl. I was in an LDR once (I knew it was going to end because he was going to move thousands of miles away... but I was still with him for some reason... I guess I just wanted to enjoy the company?) and there was this guy in my class who I thought was really cute. But I never even looked his direction because I was afraid I would end up liking him. Sure enough, he approached me. Apparently he was quite interested in me too. We became more than friends and I ended up breaking up with the b/f.. I was already thinking it wasn't going to work out, so I ended it. Why drag BOTH of them along? So if you know things could possibly go further between you and your new friend, I suggest not being friends with her. However, if you think the relationship you're in now isn't working, then go right ahead. And about the trust issue. Just tell her how you feel about her. Tell her you're not interested in anyone else but HER. Tell her how much you love her. Tell her trust is very important to you and you want to regain that. (Trust is actually necessary for a relationship to last). If she can't trust you, it's just a dead end. My b/f's ex had a VERY hard time with the whole trust issue. They were together for a couple years and she never trusted him. He just thought things would go back to the way it was if he stayed. We were friends for a little over a year of that relationship. He wasn't very happy in it and I saw it. The fact that she didn't trust him hurt him. If you keep thinking about other girls, maybe it's a sign or a feeling that you're not ready to commit to your g/f. I have a great boyfriend who I love with all my heart and I don't think about other guys... (I'm 20). So yeah, just some things to think about. I hope that helped a little bit.
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