Guest Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 A question for MM on here. If there was an ideal OW you'd be willing to leave your wife for, what would she be like?
NightsDarkRose Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 probably blonde, big chested and 17.....pref a stewardess lmao j/k
lovernotafighter Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 well I can tell you what it's not - a hot , 5' 4" ,120 pound, very long blond hair, blue eyed, c cup , tanned, 10,000 dollar smile (just got my teeth done in February) with no children or stretch marks. snappy dresser, super fly and responsible with a good job AND hella allot fun to be around. so if your any of those things count your self out.
stoopid_guy Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Personally, short, dark hair and a cute face catches my eye. Then, make it someone who smiles a lot and is easy to talk to. Then, make her just as attracted to me! (And while we're fantasizing, make her rich. ) Side note; It's odd how much the OW I'm intersted in and my wife have in common. They both have short, dark hair and fair-skinned. They're both 5'8". They're both "cuddly," maybe 160 lbs or so. They're both attractive, though I'd say the OW is more "cute" where my wife is more "pretty."
lovernotafighter Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 my MM wife and I have nothing at all in common..though it sounds like our back grounds are similar and we have the same problems with MM that's about it (he sent me her picture we look nothing alike-except she has nice teeth) however my husband and MM have a ton in common..both are really cute,blond and athletic,smart and at times shy. deep down they are both narcissist and kinda full of them selves. doesn't sound much different than I described myself *reexamination time*
BUTAFLY Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 A question for MM on here. If there was an ideal OW you'd be willing to leave your wife for, what would she be like? The only thing the wife and I have in common is our ethnicity. (he likes a little spice in his life haha). But I think the MM would leave if the OW was rich-since one of the recurring excuses I keep reading is financial.
Dangerously Close Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 The wife and I could be sisters in regards to our physical appearance. I think that if a MM is really interested in leaving his wife for the OW, it wouldn't have all that much to do with her physical appearance. All that fades anyway, why would he disrupt his entire life for that? If he's gonna leave it's because there are emotional and personal things that he gets with the OW that he doesn't with his wife.
stillafool Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Why is it everytime a poster asked for a man's opinion women start posting?
newbby Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Why is it everytime a poster asked for a man's opinion women start posting? maybe to make up for the lack of men.. why do you original poster ask this question? it seems wherever you are coming from, it is something to torture yourself with. if you are an ow are you wondering if you are "good enough"?? i think, and maybe this is something i came to to help myself, but hey it works a bit, that people generally seek what they need and disregard all else. therefore, if a mm is really finished with his marriage, he will see everything an ow has to offer, because everything is what he is seeking. if he is not finished with his marriage and requires sex only, he will not pay too much attention to the ow's other talents! if he is after conversation and sex, he will notice her personality, but this doesnt mean he will be looking at her as a future partner, and so he may well not notice other parts of her, that he usually seeks in a long term partner, whether she has them or not. my ex mm, used to visit me and talk, he was amusing and i used to laugh, then i began to notice that everytime i talked he would talk over me or not really listen, because he wasnt interested, he wanted an audience for himself. he also did not WANT to like me, because where would that leave him? there are so many reasons why you should not listen to another persons opinion of you. everyone has their own agenda. rejection is another opinion in a way, but it doesnt mean its a valid one.
owcanbhppy Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 imo, i dont believe any one should leave a relationship for some one else, but for themselves if the current relationship isn't meeting expectations. to leave one for another is, to me, a sign that person cant be alone. if one cant be happy alone, i ? if they can be happy w/ another.
BUTAFLY Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 Why is it everytime a poster asked for a man's opinion women start posting? Notice Casoria(OP) hasn't been in this conversation for days.
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