SadGreenEyes Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend/girlfriend in the beginning of your relationship and then have many negative things happen along the way, some things completely out of your control, and over time you realize you are not in love with your partner anymore. My question is this - Is it possible to fall in love with this person all over again? Can you fall out of love and back in love with the same person? SGE
JamesM Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Yes, feelings come and go. The question is do you want to fall back in love?
whichwayisup Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Yes I think it's possible. But it also depends on the extent of damage done with the negative things that have happened.
Ukwizard Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 It is possible to fall in, and out of love. It depends on the couple and how things are resolved in the relationship. Some people do have bad arguments, kiss and then make up, but that doesnt mean they fall out of love. It just means they had a wee tiff. Other`s do fall out of love. One of my friends went through a bad time, and his girlfriend was falling out of love with him. You could say not enough attention was paid, and the realtionship wasn`t going the way she wanted it. However, one night, a huge row evolved, and she walked out. Naturally they talked about it, and are back on track. Things are better for them now, and still together. So yes it does happen. It just depends how we handle the relationship.
serial muse Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Anybody else have the Alicia Keys song running through their heads after reading this thread title? I-i-i kee-eep on falling...in and out...of love...with you...
jerbear Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 Anybody else have the Alicia Keys song running through their heads after reading this thread title? I-i-i kee-eep on falling...in and out...of love...with you... Nope! I've heard about the song but do not really get that song running in my head.
Shane361 Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 People interpret this different. To me if you love someone then you will always love that person. You may or may not LIKE that person any more. Like comes and goes. If your "in love" the it's a mutual feeling. Otherwise you love someone and they dont love you. Maybe I just think its easier to think of things this way. It's easy to love someone, its hard to continue to like someone and them you. People seem to get bored easily. Greatest thrill is meeting someone and getting to know them, its exciting. Then the new wears off and bordum sets in. -Shane
Sally00 Posted July 24, 2006 Posted July 24, 2006 People interpret this different. To me if you love someone then you will always love that person. You may or may not LIKE that person any more. Like comes and goes. If your "in love" the it's a mutual feeling. Otherwise you love someone and they dont love you. Maybe I just think its easier to think of things this way. It's easy to love someone, its hard to continue to like someone and them you. People seem to get bored easily. Greatest thrill is meeting someone and getting to know them, its exciting. Then the new wears off and bordum sets in. -Shane Yeah, I think I agree with Shane on this one. Being IN LOVE is different than just loving or liking someone. When you have fights or disagreements, you may not like the person... but it doesn't mean you all of a sudden fall out of love with them. Falling out of love is a lot harder I would think. Falling in love with someone is less temporary than liking someone. I don't know how to exactly say it. But yeah lol.
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