Guest Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of a few months. I'm in denver, shes still in minnesota where we both go to the same college. Everything was really good, but heres a small issue I wanted others advise on. She is a counselor at a finnish language camp, and the sauna is a big part of finnish culture. So she sometimes takes saunas with other counselors, these are in big groups btw. She has explained to me before how these are naked, as actual people from finland couldnt do it any other way. I have not had an issue about this, and dont think it warrents it. So heres the problem: a couple days ago we were talking on the phone, and she ended the conversation by saying "some counselors are going to take a sauna and I want to go, some guys from the norwegian camp are coming too, plus all the finnish guy counselors, there will only be a few girls, bye" what is that? Theres little chance of a big orgy breaking out or anything, and I doubt she cheated just from saying this, but does she not understand what kind of picture this planted in my head? She must, so why'd she do that to me? I havent got to talk to her since then, I tried calling yesterday cause I had a question and she hasnt called me back yet, which shes never failed to do before. Is it possible she was trying to get revenge or something stupid? because I had told her that day that I met a danish girl and we hung out for a while talking (in danish), only reason I did was because its rare to find someone who speaks danish or norwegian and I enjoy speaking the language. And I told her this, but I could tell she got a little annoyed. Thanks all..
Sonic_chaos Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 I wouldnt think anything of it man, She is trying to make you jealous by planting that seed into your head. Even tho you didnt mean to make her jealous, with hanging out with the other danish girl, its realy got up her nose the fact you have been hanging out with another girl. Let her cool off first then give her another call. Im sure everything will be cool man.. Good luck!
nips5050 Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 I wouldnt think anything of it man, She is trying to make you jealous by planting that seed into your head. Even tho you didnt mean to make her jealous, with hanging out with the other danish girl, its realy got up her nose the fact you have been hanging out with another girl. Let her cool off first then give her another call. Im sure everything will be cool man.. Good luck! I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
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