sasha23 Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 I am glad I am not alone in the way I feel....but because I only broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few days ago, I feel like my world is over. I can't sleep at night, I cry constantly. I have no appetite and my uni work is suffering. I can't ever see myself being happy in the future with anyone else. Everything reminds me of him....my home, my room.... I have never gone through a break up before so I don't know if I will ever get better... What makes matters worse is he is in a state. We have agreed never to speak or see eachother again in order for us to get over eachother. But as times are hard now he does call to see how I am. He is constantly crying though (as this is a guy who hardly gets upset)...he says his life will never be the same and he'd never be happy....the fact that he feels this way kills me. I need to know that he will get over this. I care about him more than the world....
BatteredByLove Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 You broke up with him right? Why did you break up with him? I really dn't know what to tell you due to not knowing your situation. If you don't want to share, browse LS, there are others out there that are coping too, the advices on LS are..... once in a lifetime .
Guest Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 We broke up because we are both from families of different religions and we know we can not have a future together...our families refused after a long hard fight...I know we should never have gotten involved in the first place but people always do things they shouldnt..... Now I need to get over him but I don't know how....I am suffering so much. I have never felt pain so much before...He was my life.
Guest Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 I know everyone has different belief systems and ways of living...but personally, I would never let my parent's disapproval stop me from being with someone I loved. If you love someone, they should understand. It's your life, not theirs.
Author sasha23 Posted July 23, 2006 Author Posted July 23, 2006 We've been through all that, for us it's not easy....but it is over. All i need now is help getting over him...I need to know I will stop waking up 3 times in the night just to cry....I need to know I will start eating properly one day and I really need to know that one day he will be fine. How do people cope in situations like this? I know I cannot compare this to a death but I will never see or hear from him again so in a way it feels like he is no longer here. I am suffering so much...please help.
Guest Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 to carry the sleigh...dont it just grab you? Still does. I love that song. I remember the days I sang it even as a child. One of my favorites. Right at the top! It doesn't even have to be Christmas, Ha! We all share in those memories how they still hold true so dear to our heart. And we shall EVER for get those classics. It is orignal. I sang it on TV once! {i know brag braggart, but true!] Just as if it was yesterday. But of course we today have our new and ol' time favorites. One of mine is la la "I'm a fool for ya baby. I just can't get it out of my head sometimes. I said "Hey, I'm a good woman, such a gooood womannnnn, but you treat me like dirt." By Cold Blood. Out of San Fran. I first heard it when I was just a teen. I played it over and over till I was told NO More! Sure wish I could hear the disk or when it came out one more time. It makes me smile when I sing the song in my head. That voice. It cradled me. Silly, fun and loyal; refuses to see or feel the meaningful me. Tonight was one that goes into the books. Well, I was rushing to get things done, when I was thrown into more chaos, and lo and behold, found my time up and watching the crowd walk out the door. I wanted to run, but still had to find my fu--ing life set go when I felt "gotta hear from dam atleast once tonight. Down and out. Just as expression go, so did my heart and my arms reached out to you. So much going on. Too much staying and saying so long. Hell, bent on time on her side? Why knot? Because, or just refuse to let go of jump start in my hearts way? Damn. Wll say good nite then. Sweet dreams, I recall. Smiling for God's sake.
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 My friend dated someone of the musliumic( sP) religion, and he still went with this beliefs..Behind his parents back of course. Not saying you should do that. But I would not let my parents come in the way of the man I loved. Religion is a big deal. I don't know what else to tell you. This is your choice. I would go get my man back ! if that was me personally. What do your parents think about all this?
AriaIncognito Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 I'm currently 1 month into a breakup with a person of a differing religion. I feel that it was a big part in his not allowing himself to be happy with me, when he claimed I was a great person and made him happy, when he wasn't busy being conflicted as to our being together. Religion can indeed be a really tricky thing, and parental approval is very huge in some cultures as well. Basically it will be up to the two of you, if you're willing to deal with the potential struggles it will bring. For my case, I was willing, and he seemingly was not. That does not a relationship make. Now, if you are both on the same page, i'd say the same as others here, go back and fight for it if you feel your love is true. True love isn't easy to find. Jennifer
Recommended Posts