PoisonMelody Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 A guy that I went to high school with (but never really knew well at all, he was just kinda in my circle) found me online & we started talking. We were chatting for about a couple of weeks, like every day for a few hours. He was sweet and seemed like a genuine guy. He wanted to come see me if that would be okay, and I agreed that it would be cool to hang out & see how we got along in person. So we met up for coffee (that's a theme for me) to test the waters. We hung out for a bit, & he wanted to go out to eat. I said sure, I was digging him...so it turned into an actual date. We had nice conversation & some playful flirting going on. Toward the end of the date, he took my hand, looked deep in my eyes, touched my face...needless to say we started sharing some smoochies. And I tell you, the kisses were absolutely AMAZING. We continued for a while...nothing below neck level, I'll have you know. Trying to keep hormones in check, this WAS the first date after all, didn't want to risk going too far or anything. Basically, he took me to my car, I thanked him for dinner and spending time with me. He told me he had fun & I said I did too. He said something along the lines of "I'll talk to you later" Little smoochies, then we parted ways. So it's been four days, haven't heard a PEEP from him. I'm so confused. He has been on myspace since, and I am still his #2 friend. I just don't know what went wrong! I'm okay with it either way...but I just don't understand what could have happened, or what he might be thinking. Any input, anyone? Thanks
Heavenseventeen Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 Best case scenario:I don't see what the problem is. You just hooked up, so you don't wanna be smothered all of a sudden. I don't see why you can't leave a small message on his space. It won't look desperate since it's been four days. Worst case scenario: It was just a bit of fun for him. He didn't see it as seriously as you did. It could have just been the moment getting carried away. But if he was a weasle, he might've tried to go home with you or something. My viewpoint: Leave a message on his space, like: Had a great time. You wanna meet up again? If he says no/yes, then at least you know where you stand. You will be able to move forward, with or without him. It's better to know than contemplate.
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