Mr baseball Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 My wife and I had been having problems. She was going out often and staying out late. She would also get phone calls where she would leave the room and talk and or text. Well I found out by pc history that she was looking at apartment's. I thought this would be a great time to ask for my business cell phone and credit card back. She freaked out! She took the phone and deleted everything in the phone then handed it to me. I kept the phone for a few days and bingo a text message from a unknown number that said "please call me"???? I have alltel..so I called them. They said that they "can't" give me the number or text????? I decided to wait for the bill. I took the bill and marked off all the numbers that I know. With just a hand full of numbers left there was one that stood out. I did a online search and found a name and number. I called and a guy answered the phone.......I said "Oh ***** wrong number"!!!!! I had a pretty good idea now!!!!! Well now the wheels started to turn faster! I remember finding an address in one of our drawers. This address was where my wife went on a "girls only" weekend trip. I searched it! Would'nt you know it......the same city and guy!!! I started to think I'm just letting my mind wander??? Well later I found a email that explained/covered a fun filled "get away" With...guess who!!!!!! If you think deep down that there is a problem just check it out!!!! I am soooo glad I did.
alfagrl Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 keep us posted? I'm so glad you found out before she ran w/ your cell and credit cards. This goes to show your gut knows best and when it tells you something is wrong- Listen.
Heavenseventeen Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 I hope that she gets a worse settlement as a result. How dare she use your tools of trade for her ulterior motives?
THX2000 Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 It's a good thing you jumped on this as early as you did. I had the same feelings as you but foolishly allowed my ex to explain it all away and make everything better by telling me how in love with me she was. If I only had started checking up on her earlier I would have found out about the other guy and how she was systematically sucking me dry for money. Good for you for catching it early. Now kick her ass out!
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