nikerun21 Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 Okay so i dated this girl and she was at my college grauationm, i graduated, and left for 8 months didnt find a job bummed around @ home she was in college, and she cut me off from her life cuz i never saw her, and so now im coming back and im cut off from her life, and i was wondering how I would approach seeing if we could be friends again, she was my gf up until i left and i didnt see her much for 8 months so i wanted to know how i'd approach it. This girl wont go on AIM, wont email me back, wont have any communication, i think its pretty hopeless, but any suggestions?
Dataniel Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 Well hey, if she doesn't like you anymore or if she moved on, there's nothing you can really do. 8 months is a long time... maybe she thinks you moved on and are on the rebound now. Unless.... you are deeply in love with her and absolutley have to have her back, then you simply cannot give up. I really don't have any GOOD ideas for you here... the only thing I have for you is to play the game where you show up at a party/bar/club/someplace where she is and say hi. I wouldn't really recommend that though, it could lead to a worse problem like her thinking you're a stalker or you walking in on her with another guy...
Heavenseventeen Posted July 22, 2006 Posted July 22, 2006 You should move on. Emailing her and messaging her all the time will only make it worse. She is clearly no longer interested. You've been living separate lives for almost a year now. You should spend your time finding someone cares you the same way. Good luck.
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