rpregean Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 My ex and broke up about six weeks ago and things have been very amicable between us. We have tried to break contact a few times and with little success, but recenly we slept together the weekend before last, which I asked her if she thought was a mistake to which she replied, "whenever I am with you, I never think it is a mistake." then the following weekend, she acts as if it never happened and says that we're good friends and we "need to keep our space" She has a five-year-old son to keep her busy and I know she actively speaking with other guys (I see her adding myspace friends). I confronted her about it and she says she is doing it to keep herself distracted and really doesn't want to date. She tells me loves me but that she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. She got out of a bad divorce recently before we met in which her husband left her and even admits that she is afraid of commitment and failing again in marriage. She says when I am around that she feels so googly eyed but when we're apart she says there are issues she has with me that she can't deal with. I am very confused and I know spending time apart and keeping distance is what we need. She says she keeps my photo by her bedside still and has a "special place in her heart" for me. We agreed to not speak until Aug. 1, and haven't spoken since monday. She does say she needs space and needs to figure things out, but then why is looking to meet new guys when she says she doesn't want to date? I am not a fool, but she has never lied to me before. I am very confused. Any insight as to what to do? -R
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