Guest Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 i'll make it short, how does this seem to you? she leaves me in a text message, saying the feelings just arent there, she cares about my feelings that why she's doing this, dont call her to talk. she wont talk to me she tells her friend she left for a different reason she hesitates when her sister asks why she left, but says the feelings arent the same i call her at midnight the next night and she talks for a half hour, not about us, general conversation. when she said she was going to go, i say i was hoping we could talk, she said maybe another day. so she's avoiding the subject. so is she sure about this? do you think she's confused? i didnt want to go into detail, b/c this is what i'm confused about. if you're sure you dont want to be with someone, you wouldn't pick up the phone at midnight to talk, you wouldn't avoid the subject so badly, right? i dont know, what do you think?
Tony T Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Leave her alone and don't worry about it. The very best way to drive a lady out of her mind is for her to not hear from you at all...that is, if she is in any way fond of you. If she's not, she'll be in heaven. Either way, it works out in your favor because you are free to find the incredible number of women in your area who would love to be by your side and who won't play games. Oh, you asked what this girl's behavior means....what does she have to do for you to get the message??? At best she is stringing you on to see just how some other situation works out for her...at worst, she doesn't want to see you anymore. Leave her alone.
jmars Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Not to wax poetic, but I agree with Tony T. In my scant experience, a similar situation was revealed to mean that there was another man. She gave me the entire "love you, but not IN love with you" speel, said she wasn't interested in seeing other men, promised not to go there and that she would be up front and tell me if she did, before things "progressed", et al. It took my step-daughter to bring the truth out, but not before her mother said (to the child, as well as me) that she was lying, only to be discovered as the liar herself. Beyond that, to reiterate, go with Tony's advice.
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