precious99 Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 How do guys show how they feel about their GF/SO?? My BF is one of those quiet, unassuming "shy guys"....he is affectionate and cuddly - holds my hand, hugs me, touches my shoulders etc... but he rarely initiates sex and when he kisses me it's like pecks - does this mean that he's not into me? That he's losing interest? I don't get it...I mean don't get me wrong he never turns me down and our sex life is active and amazing but I want the open mouthed kissing and for him to just grab me sometimes and tell me he wants me. Is this just not the way some guys operate? Am I reading too much into this?
stoopid_guy Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 How do guys show how they feel about their GF/SO??... he is affectionate and cuddly - holds my hand, hugs me, touches my shoulders etc... our sex life is active and amazing... You answered your own question. It soulds like he likes you and respects you, and doesn't want to be any more assertive than he needs to be. If you want him to be more agressive, just tell him. He'll probably be happy to oblige. It's also possible that you or other ladies have told him about guys who were too assertive, and he doesn't want to make that mistake. No open-mouthed kissing at all? or just in public? I'm one of those shy guys. I'll display affection in public, holding hands, hugs, etc. but I don't generally display lust in public.
Poboy Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 yes you are reading too much ... dont worry , he isnt into PDA ... Talk to him if you want to about your wants n needs only if you think its necessary.
AwkwardMan Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Did he used to be more aggressive? If he's toned it down, I'd be concerned. However, if this is just how he's acted, talk to him.
Sonic_chaos Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 excatly as said above, probably doesnt wanna push you into having sex if you dont want it. Even if he does, it seems he aint gonna take the chance or risk of pissing you off. Which is fair enough. Im sorta like this too, I need to feel if she wanted me or not, if she was just after some passion and nothing more, and i start to get take it one step further and she didnt, i normally find it just stops bit like a convo killer. So i tend to play it by ear, untill i know for sure. Personally i dont find sex a must thing to do so many times a week type thing in a relationship, altho its nice to have when its there. im content with some passionate kisses, cuddles and teasing.. each to there own. Im sure he will become more comfortable or confident as you grow together.
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