Guest Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 I've met that guy a couple of months ago through a friend and since then, we've spent a lot of time together... I think he's a great guy. He's funny, intelligent, etc. He's super thoughtful, like for example, he'll prepare me some lunches for work and will go for a walk with my dog when I'm busy. He even introduced me to his parents and some of his friends (which to my opinion was a little bit too early but...).... Everything looked perfect but then last night, he told me that it always takes time for him to get attached to a girl because he's scared to get hurt. I can understand that he doesn't want to marry me after a couple of month but I can't help wondering why it is so hard for him to call me his girlfriend.... Most of my exes considered me as their girlfriend from day one even thought we probably haven't spent as much time together as I'm spending right now with that guy.... The thing is I know he consider our relationship like an exclusive relationship and everytime he's coming to my place he'll cuddle with me for hours and hours so to me it's kind of a non-sense... Is he waiting for me to ''make the move''? Is he still in love with his ex girlfriend? (We both - me & I- split up with our respective exes 3 months before we met... In my case it was clear in my head that I didn't had any feeling for my ex anymore but could it be different for him?) Is it to early in the relationship to ask him where do he stand with regards of our relationship? Am I making a big deal out of nothing?
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