tdbc3r Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 How do you people deal with someone who broke your heart in a thousand pieces and wants nothing to do with you because of the other man, and you still love them. Having no contact is impossible because we have 3 kids that we share 50/50 so I see her at least 3-4 days a week plus at all kid functions. It is impossible to forget her when I see her all the time. This is killing me and I don't know how to get over her. Please any help would be great!!!!!!
Ruff Ryder Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 This is a hard one.... My only advise here is get a new woman. She has the other man so get yourself the other woman. Show her your happy and show your kids that you are.
Guest Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 How do you people deal with someone who broke your heart in a thousand pieces and wants nothing to do with you because of the other man, and you still love them. Having no contact is impossible because we have 3 kids that we share 50/50 so I see her at least 3-4 days a week plus at all kid functions. It is impossible to forget her when I see her all the time. This is killing me and I don't know how to get over her. Please any help would be great!!!!!! You can know that you're not alone in your struggle. You just have to put one foot in front of the other for now. Lots of healing to do and emotions to work out. Surround yourself with family and friends. And by all means keep your contact as short and "business like" as possible. It doesn't seem like it now, but after some time has passed, you really won't care. Your life will move on in spite of her deeds. And you will realize that you can be happy and fulfilled again.
scrybe74 Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Counseling helps tremendously....if you get a good counselor. There really isn't an easy answer for someone in your shoes. Your only option is to learn to find happiness elsewhere. She can't be your source of happiness anymore. That's why you feel so crappy. You've made her your happiness source. The best thing you can do for yourself....and for any future relationships....is to try and find a source of happiness that isn't tied to a person. That way in the future.....if this ever happens again...you'll hurt a little less. You'll get over it faster...and you'll be better prepared. Most importantly...you're likely to pick a better partner for you and maintain the relationship better. Best of luck to you.
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