frag111 Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 How is it men can move on so fast ......i was in a relationship for 5 years have 1 child together. broke up on tuesday he is now seeing someone else but wont admit it to me. Even though we have a child he has not contacted me .....Is it just me or is it abit nasty that he got into another relasionship within a day ....fyi he dumped me said he didnt want us to be together anymore (but the week before he told me he loved me ....duh) I just dont get it ......any advice?
Chinook Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 I would imagine that he dumped you because he was already seeing someone else. It's a classic thing of "but I didn't start seeing her until we were over". Yeah sure you did. Sorry for your pain but you're better off without him.
Author frag111 Posted July 20, 2006 Author Posted July 20, 2006 Yeah thats fine i can understand that but he was absolutly fine last week when he told me he loved me and stuff so its only been a week ...and the thing that really gets me now is the phrase i want to be friends i want to be friends....arrrrrgggghhhhh of course i have no option because of our son.
saiga Posted July 21, 2006 Posted July 21, 2006 Don't listen to what he says look at his actions. Actions speak louder than words. What happened sucks....no one debates that....my advice find someone who stands behind you. The advice given is correct he was thinking of others before the breakup. It isn't like you think it is..time to find someone else and walk away.
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