burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Again I agree with you. I guess it really depends what kind of a mistake is a turn-off for you. My ex made all kind of mistakes. From cheating on me to treating me like trash but I forgave her and kept on going. Suprisingly, the thing that made her seem unattractive to me was when she said something bad about my parents. I told her this but again I stuck around and after about 2-3 weeks, the attraction was back in full force. Unfortunately, she dumped me and I have no clue why. was she physically superior to you? my ex did everything you mentioned and i forgave her, because we both knew she was better than me. she had options and she eventually exercised them. i was just a pit stop, a bookmark so that she never had to spend time alone
jimmy20013 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Not to boast about myself but it was quiet the opposite. I was physically superior to her. I guess what you meant to ask was ," Did she got hit on more than I did?" and the answer is no. I got hit on more and I am aware of atleast 2 of her friends who were in a relationship and had a crush on me. Sorry, I am not being conceited just honest.
Author soberminded Posted July 28, 2006 Author Posted July 28, 2006 Again I agree with you. I guess it really depends what kind of a mistake is a turn-off for you. My ex made all kind of mistakes. From cheating on me to treating me like trash but I forgave her and kept on going. Suprisingly, the thing that made her seem unattractive to me was when she said something bad about my parents. I told her this but again I stuck around and after about 2-3 weeks, the attraction was back in full force. Unfortunately, she dumped me and I have no clue why. My theory is that she dumped you because you were a pushover. You should have dumped her when she cheated on you. I firmly believe once a cheater always a cheater. By you forgiving her and staying with her you gave her the illusion that she can cheat again without reprecussions. So she thinks you were not a challenge and consequently slowly lost respect for you. She has the illusion that she can get away with treating you like garbage.
burning 4 revenge Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Not to boast about myself but it was quiet the opposite. I was physically superior to her. I guess what you meant to ask was ," Did she got hit on more than I did?" and the answer is no. I got hit on more and I am aware of atleast 2 of her friends who were in a relationship and had a crush on me. Sorry, I am not being conceited just honest. so why did you put up with her abuse? maybe she left you for not standing up for yourself like a man. i put up with it, because i knew i would never taste something so good again. she knew it too. it was always there, unspoken, hovering in the air like black incense. i was the slave and she was the master
jimmy20013 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Ouch!!! That hurt. But thanks for being honest. I guess thats what happened and I am not gonna make the same mistake in my future relationships. Read my First Breakup Post and you will understand, where I started and where I am right now. Thanks.
jimmy20013 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I never said I didnt stand up. I stood up but eventually I forgave her.Maybe forgave her too many times. I know she took me for granted every now and then and I always stood up for myself then.
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