Guest Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 *Men in general are good-willed human beings who are also pretty basic in their desires and ambition. *Men are project oriented. Whether it be a marriage, a carrier, an affair, anything - they'd go for it with a certain ambition for an accomplishment; *Men are weak for attention/ someone to like them. No matter how tough they may act and sound at work, or a disciplinarian as a father, deep inside they ALL crave for this one thing: to have someone they could crawl onto lap of and tell them how much they are appreciated/ respected just for who the are. * Men can be pretty insecure. They get used to rejection and humiliation early in life. All the pressures and demands of everyday life (to compete, to provide, to solve, to manage, and other ways of life rat-racing) take a serious toll on their self-image and self- esteem. They learn to conceal their emotions, so others around them would NEVER know how they really feel. *Men are sex driven. That's how they're simply "wired" as men. Their eyes are in the business of wondering (visual stimulation is always something so hard for them to control). Majority of them will go for it without thinking twice, if the opportunity arises with a little chance of being caught. *"L-O-V-E" for men is spelled "R-E-S-P-E-C-T". Ask any guy whether he'd rather be loved (the way we women understand LOVE) or respected, and 95% of them will choose the later. You don't have to agree with them, just admire and revere their councel... *Men, as a rule, are self-proud. It's so much harder for them to forgive or apologize than for us women. They are also stubborn. Hard-headed. Selfish. But then you'll ask, "And who isn't?" *Men are better leaders. They are not easily lead by emotions the way we women are. They are more matter-of-fact minded and level-headed. *Men NEED us/ women at the end of the busy day. We can be their strength, their comfort. We are their companion and friend, and someone they can cry onto the shoulder in the moment of weakness and unsurity. We love, like, and UNCONDITIONALLY respect you, guys. Why? Because you're ours. :0)
stoopid_guy Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 I agree with most of it, keeping individual variability in mind. Not sure I agree with the leader part though, some of the best "bosses" I've ever had have been women.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 i thought you all were snakes an snails an puppy dog tails??!??!
Blackfrost Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 Not sure I agree with the leader part though, some of the best "bosses" I've ever had have been women. consider yourself lucky
lindya Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 *Men in general are good-willed human beings who are also pretty basic in their desires and ambition. *Men are project oriented. Whether it be a marriage, a carrier, an affair, anything - they'd go for it with a certain ambition for an accomplishment; *Men are weak for attention/ someone to like them. No matter how tough they may act and sound at work, or a disciplinarian as a father, deep inside they ALL crave for this one thing: to have someone they could crawl onto lap of and tell them how much they are appreciated/ respected just for who the are. * Men can be pretty insecure. They get used to rejection and humiliation early in life. All the pressures and demands of everyday life (to compete, to provide, to solve, to manage, and other ways of life rat-racing) take a serious toll on their self-image and self- esteem. They learn to conceal their emotions, so others around them would NEVER know how they really feel. *Men are sex driven. That's how they're simply "wired" as men. Their eyes are in the business of wondering (visual stimulation is always something so hard for them to control). Majority of them will go for it without thinking twice, if the opportunity arises with a little chance of being caught. *"L-O-V-E" for men is spelled "R-E-S-P-E-C-T". Ask any guy whether he'd rather be loved (the way we women understand LOVE) or respected, and 95% of them will choose the later. You don't have to agree with them, just admire and revere their councel... *Men, as a rule, are self-proud. It's so much harder for them to forgive or apologize than for us women. They are also stubborn. Hard-headed. Selfish. But then you'll ask, "And who isn't?" *Men are better leaders. They are not easily lead by emotions the way we women are. They are more matter-of-fact minded and level-headed. *Men NEED us/ women at the end of the busy day. We can be their strength, their comfort. We are their companion and friend, and someone they can cry onto the shoulder in the moment of weakness and unsurity. We love, like, and UNCONDITIONALLY respect you, guys. Why? Because you're ours. :0) Is this what a blow job looks like in written form? Only kidding.
Guest Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 i thought you all were snakes an snails an puppy dog tails??!??! And those too if you consider them to never grow up
Guest Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Is this what a blow job looks like in written form? Only kidding. There were some not so flattering points in the list above as well, so yes you were just kidding
lindya Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 There were some not so flattering points in the list above as well, so yes you were just kidding Aha - but you know how it goes. Sometimes the comments we believe to be unflattering are the ones that men prove to be most delighted by
superconductor Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Doncha just love it when a woman speaks for a man? Granted, some of the post has elements of truth to it. But just as all women are individuals, so *gasp!* are all men. For instance, personally I'm the first to forgive an indiscretion made against me, or apologize when I've been an a$$. And I know plenty of women - actually, I think every woman I know - who hold grudges a long, long time. Their memory for some sort of imagined slight only gets more ingrained over time.
owcanbhppy Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 cute responses here! espc snakes & snails and written bj. super, you make valid points. while over-generalizations are a pet peave for me, i have to agree my observations show women tend to hold grudges longer. also see things in the original post that do apply to men i know. but your right, we are all individuals.
stoopid_guy Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 you were just kidding On the other hand, "Many a true word is spoken in jest.";)
lindya Posted July 23, 2006 Posted July 23, 2006 Doncha just love it when a woman speaks for a man? Don't mention it. Normally my time's charged out at £150 per hour...but I believe in giving back to society by doing as much pro bono work as I can. Hang on, were you talking to me or the original poster? If it's the latter, any comments relating to self-absorption will be accepted gracefully.
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