CVS Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Here is the deal. I love my girlfriend to death, but there is a problem... Everything is usually fine between us. However, since I've known her, she will go out and get drunk about once a week. I usually get a call every time about 3 in the morning and she's angry, swearing at me, etc. She accuses me of affairs and accusses me of calling her a whore. It's the most odd and extremelyl paranoid behavior I've ever seen in a girl. She will usually tell me she hates me and wants to break up, then hangs up on me. However, the next morning it's like nothing happend and she's lovey-dovey again. I will confront her about her antics, but I don't think she has a clue as to how "crazy" she gets. Ironically, although she accuses me of affairs, I'm never invited out with her "friends" when she goes out and gets drunk. It's a mystery as to what she's doing. When I ask why....she says, "you don't drink." (I do infact drink a couple times a week, but only get drunk maybe once every two months or so). Anyone have any clue why everything would be great except these bouts of extreme paranoia? It's like she builds a case against me that makes zero sense and then the next morning she's fine.
JackJack Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Her paranoia problably comes from the fact shes drunk. When someone is intoixcated they can do/say/feel things that wouldn't or might not when sober. Also since you are not invited to go out with her, and shes accussing you of things could be one of two things, either its just the alocohol talking or shes doing something she shouldn't. It might even be a little of both. She needs to nip the drinking in the bud as well.
bab Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 I'm probably wrong, but my initial reaction is that she's cheating on you. Maybe you should look into it. I do tend to get a bit jealous when I'm drunk (or woken from a deep sleep, which is pretty much the same thing), but this is WAY beyond that. Very very strange. Record her call the next time so that she will hear what she is doing. Can she explain it at all?
Guest182 Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 I know that the day after and you feel great that she is all lovey dovey again and not want to stir things up again once they have calmed down...but you NEED to have her seek some help if she can't control her drinking. Alcohol does have that kind effect on some people. When I get drunk I usualy feel down in the dumps and everything thats wrong in my life gets amplified by the alcohol, it dosnt make problems go away. As far as her cheating on you i belive its deffinately a possibility but not deffinate. Her crazy reation could have been triggered by her feeling guilty for doing something bad. I think that this is an issue that needs to be taken cared of as soon as you can. From the persepctive of an observer, i think that a fun thing to see you do is follow her one night and see for yourself. Of course this will certainly come back to bite you on the ass if she ever finds out but then again I'm sure most of us will love to hear the story of what happend.
Recommended Posts