sickkitty Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 i was doing well 2day until i found out that my x is taking his new bit of as* on holiday in august i feel guted i cant believe it we always talked about going on hol but he never bothered we went out 4 a yr and hes only been sing this f*cking B*tch for a month What was wrong with me im crying as im typing this i just cany believe it i feel so low right now i feel like i cant go on!! he is happy and im a complete reck i cant believe he could hurt me like this but i was wrong. i dont no what 2 do anymore Amanda xx
Guest Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 That totally sucks! How are you finding out all of this information about him? Mine just disappeared off of the face of the earth and I never heard from him again. I think that I prefer that over knowing what he's doing now and whom he's seeing. Anyway, you mentioned before that he's unemployed and has no money and that his new significant other likes the things that money can buy. Vacations are expensive. Her expensive needs may just run him dry. At that point she may tire of him if she is materialistic.
Guest Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 The new one is probably paying for the trip, otherwise he wouldn't be going anywhere.
2020vision Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Correct me if I am wrong, but are you finding this information out because you are looking at his emails?If so, that is extremley un healthy and is only going to end in you being a bitter unpleasant person.... If not, then wherever/whoever you are receiving this information from, needs to stop. You will drive yourself insane. You need to move past this. I know it hurts, my ex was with his new g/f the day after I moved out and they moved in together after 4 months of knowing eachother. I used to talk to his mom, thats how I found out all my information. I stopped getting this information because I realized that I was still giving him a huge chunk of my life and frankly my friends lives because of all the conversations that revolved around him. But you have to want to stop this cycle of drama. I know you can do it. Best of luck to you. -2020
Author sickkitty Posted July 20, 2006 Author Posted July 20, 2006 iv stoped looking at his e mails now coz i will drive my self crazy i found out through a lady how works at the same pub as this girl She probably is paying 4 the whole thing but its the little things that get 2 me! I found out he bought her pink roses and sent them 2 her work place (she told this lady this) the only thing he ever used 2 buy me was alcohole and the odd meal here and there, thats wots hurting at the mo Oh and the fact he is still saying they r just friends and that the roses were just 2 say thank u 4 putting up with him being so down (over me)pmsl whatever Thanx 4 ur advice guys, it means alot right now xx Amanda xx
allina Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 I understand that you're hurt and that it's hard, but why is she a b*tch? She didn't do anything wrong, they are both single and can go on vacation together if they wish to do so. Stop snooping and prying in to his life, it's not helping you move on.
Author sickkitty Posted July 20, 2006 Author Posted July 20, 2006 im not snoopng ppl tell me whats going on, the reason im upset is coz she liked him and was trying to get with him when we were still together!!! And he was making calls n txting her behind my back!!! Also he sed nothing would Ever happen between them coz there r friends So the reason im so upset is because i saw this coming and she was trying to get with him while we were still going out!! Now shes got what she wanted!!
allina Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 im not snoopng ppl tell me whats going on, the reason im upset is coz she liked him and was trying to get with him when we were still together!!! And he was making calls n txting her behind my back!!! Also he sed nothing would Ever happen between them coz there r friends So the reason im so upset is because i saw this coming and she was trying to get with him while we were still going out!! Now shes got what she wanted!! Oh okay, from what I read I thought you were breaking in to his e-mail, you could tell people that you don't care to hear about what your ex is doing and with who. If he was doing things befind your back and lying to you then you should be angry with him, not her. Taking your anger out on her and calling her names only makes you look jealous and crazy.
Author sickkitty Posted July 20, 2006 Author Posted July 20, 2006 i c where u cuming from babe but i an angry with both of them as ne one would be in my shoes im not looking at his emails ne more only did that once it was i stupid thing 2 do i admit, she is as much 2 blame as him (it takes 2) and trying 2 get off wiv my bf while im dating him is ofo every sime she saw him she would start crying in front of him and all that sh*t I no nothing lasts 4ever but i have been extreamly hurt by them evry thing he said hed never do (2 hurt me) hes gone and done, she new what she was dong all along. Thank u 4 ur opinion, i no some of the things iv done was silly but when anger kicks in u cant help it, especially when u feel rejected (he started cing her 1 wk after we broke up)
2020vision Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 was doing well 2day until i found out that my x is taking his new bit of as* on holiday in august i feel guted i cant believe it we always talked about going on hol but he never bothered we went out 4 a yr and hes only been sing this f*cking B*tch for a month What was wrong with me im crying as im typing this i just cany believe it i feel so low right now i feel like i cant go on!! he is happy and im a complete reck i cant believe he could hurt me like this but i was wrong. i dont no what 2 do anymore Amanda xx I was in a very similiar situation. My ex was texting and hanging out with his now live in g/f while we were still together. It was easy to blame her. But , you have no clue what he has told her. He has probably told her all the cheezy lines in the book to get her attention. HE is the b*tch. Anger is a healthy stage of a break up, but it needs to pass. You will start to borderline on crazy if you hold on to this for much longer. You are snooping to find out information, you are engaging in conversations about him with random people and finding out information you should not. LET IT GO, I repeat LET IT GO. he is a slimeball and does not deserve a second of your thoughts. I know that it is hard to let this go, and lets face it, it fills up your boring days obessing over him and this girl. But, you need to drop it. Find something else to do that is not self destructive. Stop fishing for information and drop it. Live your own life. -2020
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