Christabelle Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Hey you guys, heres my problem, I like this girl more then anything and I care about her more then anything in this world. We were talking the other night and she was just asking me questions right. One of the last questions she had asked me was, "Who do you like?" so I thaught heres my chance right so I told you that I like her and care about her alot. After I had said that to her she told me that she liked me before. But heres the big thing, she has a boyfriend, but I still like her so much and care about here more then anything. What do I do?
x kimber x Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Just because you've found out that she is attached doesn't mean that your feelings will automatically just stop. You like this girl, that's not going to go away overnight. You can't really do much at this stage, except for be there for her as a friend. Perhaps in time, her relationship with her boyfriend will fizzle out and she will choose to be with you, but for the timebeing I think you need to take a step back and be patient.
Author Christabelle Posted July 19, 2006 Author Posted July 19, 2006 Ya but her boyfriend, I've known him for a while and I was in the same class as him and stuff. And by knowing him that long knowing how he is, I think I would make a better boyfriend. =/
x kimber x Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Ya but her boyfriend, I've known him for a while and I was in the same class as him and stuff. And by knowing him that long knowing how he is, I think I would make a better boyfriend. =/ Yes, but she needs to realise that for herself. If you push her, she will get fed up. Give her the space, she will respect you more for it. In the meantime, cross your fingers that he screws up
Author Christabelle Posted July 19, 2006 Author Posted July 19, 2006 But I half to let you know, this is really killing me. I'm thinking about her day and night, shes going though my head all day, and my stomach feels weird about all this, and I just care about her so much.
x kimber x Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 I can imagine it must be difficult. The only other thing you can do is talk to her, tell her how you are feeling and ask if she would be willing to give it a try. You never know, she might want to be with you more than she wants to stay with her boyfriend.
Author Christabelle Posted July 19, 2006 Author Posted July 19, 2006 Thanks, you've really made me feel better about this:) , and I will half to talk to her for sure. I've acctually been waiting for her to go on Msn. Thanks again.
x kimber x Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 Thanks, you've really made me feel better about this:) , and I will half to talk to her for sure. I've acctually been waiting for her to go on Msn. Thanks again. Glad to hear you're feeling a bit better. Happy to help, hope you manage to get it all sorted
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