GW7147 Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 My ex of 6 months broke up with me about 3 months ago. She claimed she needed to sort herself out after her husband cheated on her and she had to deal with her divorce being finalized. Our break-up wasn't nasty or mean. A couple of things were said but, nothing horrible though. I will admit, I didn't beg or plead for the break-up not to happen. I initially told her I thought the relationship was worth working on. After not getting much of a response, I let it go. After the break-up, I emailed her twice to ask about some money she still owed me and I had her spare car key. She was cordial and we returned each others things. I did say, if she ever needed a friend to talk to regarding the troubles she was having with her kids, she knew where to find me. That was 2 weeks after the break-up and the last I ever had contact with her. Since that time, she started dating somebody else and I heard she's talking marriage (after dating him for a month). She did the same with the guy she dated before me and with me too. A month and a half into our relationship, she was talking marriage. She still isn't divorced yet!! The thing that's kind of bugging me is when we first broke up, I ran into a couple of friends of hers and they acted pretty crappy towards me. I understand they're her friends. The most recent thing was last week. I ran into a friend of ours (the one that introduced us). Kay has known my ex for years and I've known Kay for a couple of years now as well. When we first broke up, Kay couldn't understand what my ex was doing. She was actually angry with my ex. Last week, I was driving through a shopping center parking lot and I saw Kay getting into her car. I stopped and said "Hi cutie"!! She looked at me (holy crap, if looks could kill!!). She turned, got into her car and never said a word. I guess there's a possibility she didn't recognize me but, she was only about 20 feet away from me. I guess there's a chance she thought I was some creep trying to pick her up. After getting somewhat of a cold reception from my exes other friends, I figured my ex was feeding Kay a bunch of lies now too. I have a funny feeling my ex is telling people things that aren't true to paint a better picture of herself. All of her friends liked me and told her she'd be a fool to ever let me get away. Whatever the case, I think she's trying to cover herself and place the blame of the break-up on me. I began to think maybe she was pissed that I never pursued her or tried harder to save the relationship (make sense?). Anybody have some insight or experience this from an ex before?
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