So I like a girl.....

[chaser05]

I like this girl alot....but she has a commited boyfriend right now. he dosn't treat her good and it seems like he dosn't even care that thier going out. but on the other hand she's been hanging out with me. we've made out before and all but im wondering what i should do..She HAS liked me in the past but i liked someone else and wasnt interested. but now that i am...id hope that she would know that i would treat her better and love her for her. my friends tell me that i should give up on her cause what if she dose the same thing to me when were going out. or what if she's just using me.but others tell me to stay cause if she's kissing me...there has to be some attraction...and if i love this girl i shouldn't give up on her? help me out.

[whichwayisup]

Tell her that you're interested in her, but will not date or makeout with her UNTIL the relationship she's in now, is over. Be a friend, but keep your distance emotionally otherwise you'll end up hurt.

 

She really shouldn't be kissing you when she has a boyfriend already.

[Shane361]

I agree with which. If she is gonna make out with you and be his girlfriend that might throw up flags for when you date her. But...step back as a friend and let her know that isnt rite and that you respect her too much. If she wants you then she will leave him. If she doesnt want to...then maybe oneday she will leave him for you. Its up to you if you want to wait on her-Shane

[crazy_grl]

I agree that if she's making out with you when she has a bf, chances are she'll do the same to you. I don't think she's a girl you should date, but if you still want to pursue her, go with WWIU's advice.

[Lollie72]

I was so that girl a while back, and the truth was, I was not that into him. And I'd not try to make a relationship work if it's not all there for me. I kept going for the other guys for a reason.