waitingforlove Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 Hi, I just have a question for dumpers/those who have dumped your exes before. If the DUMPER initiates NC (telling the dumpee that they should "take a break from contacting one another"), does it mean that they are NEVER going to contact the dumpee in the future? Just wondering .... Thanks ....
superconductor Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 ... does it mean that they are NEVER going to contact the dumpee in the future? Yes. And no. Never is a long time. But once both parties have healed and moved on - and it may take years - then there may be some contact at some point. Now, if there are kids involved, then that's an entirely different story. But if this is a child-free relationship that's ended, NC is the only way for both parties to heal and move on.
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