Sureshot Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 Hey everyone, Ok, here is the scoop, im 17, turing 18 in a few weeks and there is a girl that stops off at my work quite often, i find her attractive, very smart, witty, kinda shy and very serious, and she flirts with me quite often, im not sure she really knows how to very good, but she doesnt act herself and it gets me and her both really interested when she starts to flirt and we get into conversation, but.... she is 25 or 26:eek: , i do usually get hit on by older girls, even though they know how young i am, i look older, i am very mature and serious for my age and most of them say I am attractive, but i was thinking that this "young lady" would be someone to have a relationship with, i was wondering, could she possibly be hitting on me for other reasons, like just for fun, with no intentions (like us guys do:cool: ) , or do woman usually on hit on guys they are interested in getting involved with, and also, time for the big scary question..... how much does age factor wiegh, is it really important or strain a relationship, or does it not really matter, any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated.
lil_angel Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 the older you both get the less age matters. my dad would have been a hs freshman when my mom was a senior. one of my close friends (she is much older than me) married a man 8 yrs older, the marriage lsated 12 years, and the divorce had nothing to do w/ the age. however, you're 17. im guessing you're either just graduated high school or going to be a senior come school year. this woman is probably out of college and in a career already. do you see the point im trying to make? most women, aside from domineering b****es, want a strong, capable man. you may very well be that for another 16, 17, or 18 year old girl, but if she's like most women whether or not you want a relationship will be a non issue when she finds out that compared to her you're still a little kid. and for your question about flirting, its just like guys. sometimes we do it for fun and sometimes we mean it.
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