Guest Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 We work together, used to have a "thing" you know, friends with benefits, for about 5 months. I asked him straight out if he had a girl, in the beginning, he said no one special, I was like, ok. Get this, I found out about his FIANCE through another girl who he was trying to pick up (he had no idea we were friends) and she knew about me and him. She told me that he told her he was getting married, that is, after she turned him down. He got married, went to Hawaii for his honeymoon, and not even 2 weeks later, he was back around here sniffing for p*ssy, telling the girls he was separated. I called him out one night when we were all hanging out, I said "where's it at?" he's like "what?" I said "your ring?" then he pulls it out of his pocket! He then shows me pictures of the wedding!!! He is a real class act, and I am warning all the new girls who come to work here about him and his lines. I just cannot get over the balls of this guy, trying to tell girls after only being married for 2 weeks that he is separated!!! Just wanted to share....it's driving me nutts that this girl probably has no idea about any of it. We are all in the military, except the W, and he left her in another state, with no plans of moving her down here. What a DOG!
BUTAFLY Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 Guest , Holly crap your are telling my story. NO shyt, I went through a similar thing. A guy from work who hounded me for dates, flirted with me shamlessly for 4months. He finally broke me when I agreed to go out with him. We started dating shortly after that. I mean dated ...went to functions together, I met the family & friends he even brought up marriage and when window shopping for rings. I thought he was the best thing since sliced bread. Until I find out by another coworker who thought he was engaged. I confronted him and he denied it and came up with some sorry ass story. I bought it, how can someone do that right? ha- Well he went MIA for 2 days and i asked that same coworker if he heard from BRIAN (thats right I'm using his name, I refuse to protect the guilty) he told me Brian was on a plan to Aruba for his wedding. When he came back just like your 'friend' he was sniffing around(not wearing a ring), calling obsesively, writing emails leaving VMgs wanting to explain. WHATEVER B!TCH. So If you say this co-worker your talking about name is brian and he lives in michigan, i would not be surprised. Men like this sould be outted!!! I would let his bride know her husband is a fake. I did
Guest Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 Guest , Holly crap your are telling my story. NO shyt, I went through a similar thing. A guy from work who hounded me for dates, flirted with me shamlessly for 4months. He finally broke me when I agreed to go out with him. We started dating shortly after that. I mean dated ...went to Well he went MIA for 2 days and i asked that same coworker if he heard functions together, I met the family & friends he even brought up marriage and when window shopping for rings. I thought he was the best thing since sliced bread. Until I find out by another coworker who thought he was engaged. I confronted him and he denied it and came up with some sorry ass story. I bought it, how can someone do that right? ha- from BRIAN (thats right I'm using his name, I refuse to protect the guilty) he told me Brian was on a plan to Aruba for his wedding. When he came back just like your 'friend' he was sniffing around(not wearing a ring), calling obsesively, writing emails leaving VMgs wanting to explain. WHATEVER B!TCH. So If you say this co-worker your talking about name is brian and he lives in michigan, i would not be surprised. Men like this sould be outted!!! I would let his bride know her husband is a fake. I did No, his name's not Brian, and I never got to the point of having feelings for him....thank god. WHY do guys do this? I guess this is a prime example of a Cake-eater. I wish I could let her know, but, Like I said, we are both in the military and she is states away with no knowledge of any of it, and he has no plans of bringing her down here (it's no wonder why....I guess then he really couldn't be a cake-eater anymore then...).
BUTAFLY Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 They do this because they are immature. On one hand they want to be a responsible adult and do the 'grown up' thing and get married. On the other hand they don't want to give up all the women. So they try to have both. When I found out about Brian I couldn't believe the extent he went through to lie for so long, like it all wasn't gonna blow up eventually. The balls of these men are tremendous! I suspect military men has to be far worst. They are hundreds of miles away from families, trained not to feel/not to show feelings, surrounded by a bunch of male bravado. I can imagine the scence of entitlement some of these men feel towards women. It really is disgusting.
Guest Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 They do this because they are immature. On one hand they want to be a responsible adult and do the 'grown up' thing and get married. On the other hand they don't want to give up all the women. So they try to have both. When I found out about Brian I couldn't believe the extent he went through to lie for so long, like it all wasn't gonna blow up eventually. The balls of these men are tremendous! I suspect military men has to be far worst. They are hundreds of miles away from families, trained not to feel/not to show feelings, surrounded by a bunch of male bravado. I can imagine the scence of entitlement some of these men feel towards women. It really is disgusting. I did mention that he is telling the girls he just got married or has been married for an entire year, and now they are separated, it changes, but the one thing remains the same: they are now separated...I know they just got married 3 weeks (now) ago...I saw pics...it makes me so angry cause he is STILL coming on to me (and my friend) after I shot him down after finding out about the fiance. I mean, really, if you are going to cheat on your W and you are in the military, don't bring that Sh*t to the barracks (living quarters for soldiers) cause it's gonna come back to haunt you. Isn't there a phrase for that? "Don't sh*t where you eat" and personally, alot of the soldiers (male) that I know that are Married are not cheaters, they do not disrespect thier wives like he does. The young single ones are the worst---all about that "male bravado" with them---you know sleep with as many girls as possible---yada yada I think this particular situation makes me mad because I was an Unsuspecting OW, sorta. He wasn't married yet, but according to him, he was....dunno
Sadistic_Life Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 We work together, used to have a "thing" you know, friends with benefits, for about 5 months. I asked him straight out if he had a girl, in the beginning, he said no one special, I was like, ok. Get this, I found out about his FIANCE through another girl who he was trying to pick up (he had no idea we were friends) and she knew about me and him. She told me that he told her he was getting married, that is, after she turned him down. He got married, went to Hawaii for his honeymoon, and not even 2 weeks later, he was back around here sniffing for p*ssy, telling the girls he was separated. I called him out one night when we were all hanging out, I said "where's it at?" he's like "what?" I said "your ring?" then he pulls it out of his pocket! He then shows me pictures of the wedding!!! He is a real class act, and I am warning all the new girls who come to work here about him and his lines. I just cannot get over the balls of this guy, trying to tell girls after only being married for 2 weeks that he is separated!!! Just wanted to share....it's driving me nutts that this girl probably has no idea about any of it. We are all in the military, except the W, and he left her in another state, with no plans of moving her down here. What a DOG! Oh wow. It's funny you would post this on the same day a dog came back to our company (he use to work for our company, left, and came back). Before I even met him I heard all these horror stories about him; I guess last time he was here, he was seeing two girls who work with us at the same time. Oh, did I mention that he is married? I swear, men (and most people in general) are dogs. This guy has been back for two days, and he is already hitting on me.
Tony T Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 We work together, used to have a "thing" you know, friends with benefits, for about 5 months. I asked him straight out if he had a girl, in the beginning, he said no one special, I was like, ok. Get this, I found out about his FIANCE through another girl who he was trying to pick up (he had no idea we were friends) and she knew about me and him. She told me that he told her he was getting married, that is, after she turned him down. He got married, went to Hawaii for his honeymoon, and not even 2 weeks later, he was back around here sniffing for p*ssy, telling the girls he was separated. I called him out one night when we were all hanging out, I said "where's it at?" he's like "what?" I said "your ring?" then he pulls it out of his pocket! He then shows me pictures of the wedding!!! He is a real class act, and I am warning all the new girls who come to work here about him and his lines. I just cannot get over the balls of this guy, trying to tell girls after only being married for 2 weeks that he is separated!!! Just wanted to share....it's driving me nutts that this girl probably has no idea about any of it. We are all in the military, except the W, and he left her in another state, with no plans of moving her down here. What a DOG! There is simply no way any man would do a thing like that. Men have morals and ethics. You must have gotten the wrong impression or something.
Guest Posted July 20, 2006 Posted July 20, 2006 There is simply no way any man would do a thing like that. Men have morals and ethics. You must have gotten the wrong impression or something. Are you KIDDING?!?!?!
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