Guest Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 I have a question for anyone who might have some insight on this? It seems like this would be a good place to ask the question. I have been reading some of the threads and it appears a lot of good advice and help are given on this site. My boyfriend and I have have been dating roughly 3 years and he has recently moved for work related reasons. We see each other maybe once a month. He recently said that he is thinking about getting some porn video's that he can watch to keep him occupied during the breaks. Is this normal, I am not overly concerned about it but it just sounded odd to me, I know that men are visual creatures. So, question is -- is this normal behavior? Any comments welcome !
norajane Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 Yes, it's normal. Guys masturbate a lot, and when they are without sex, they sometimes want the extra visual of porn, just like women need a fantasy while they are masturbating. What is unusual is that he's not hiding it from you...that's a really, really good sign. Let him be open with you about this, and he won't feel he has to hide it...he'll appreciate you all the more for it.
CanaDavid Posted July 18, 2006 Posted July 18, 2006 well, being a guy myself, yes it is normal for him to want to do something to occupy himself. everyone needs it, and porn would be a good way to do what he needs to do. it could be a lot worse... he could spend a lot of time with girls that you don't know, or have them hanging off of him or worse... i think that his way to cope with the loss of your physical presence is the best choice out of any possibility he could have picked. good luck to you and your relationship
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