Guest Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 Hi everyone.. I'm a guy, I work, I go to college, etc, etc. I've had one relationship in my life. It was fairly serious, it lasted almost three years, but things finally had to end for us. I work with a very sweet girl. I've always had a thing for her. She's very shy, hasn't had much experience with relationships. I never acted on any of my desires for her. I'm not the type of person that hooks up or does spontaneous things. The other night, we had a party for our co-workers. We were both drunk and ended up lying on a couch together. We kissed for a long time, though nothing more serious happened. The next day, things were a little weird. I've never done anything like this before. The problem is, I dread that it was a mistake for her, while for me, it was something that I longed for. I want to talk to her, but as I said, she's a shy person, and besides that, I do not want to become annoying or obsessive. Is it a good idea for me to bring it up to her and tell her how I feel? Or should I leave it alone? I'm afraid if I don't act, I'll lose any chance I might have had, and I don't want this to be a one night mistake. I've asked my friends, but it seems like none of them have anything to say :-/ I'll feel like a terrible person if it turns out that she did it just because of the alcohol, thanks to my viscious conscience. Please, if anyone has been in a situation like this and has some advice for me, I would love the help.
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