longcut11 Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 So my ex called me about a week ago after being in NC for about 3 months, and basically she seemed to just see what I was doing, but she asked about some dvds that I had of hers, wanting to know when she could come get them, so I told her that I would just drop them off at my parents house and she could pick them up there. After telling people about this, they all said that the dvds were just an excuse to talk to me. But then today I got home from work, and there was an instant messege from her that said I'll be in town on saturday so if you want to make sure my stuff is there that would be great. My question is, did she just want to talk to me or does she really want her stuff back, I mean she's not really the type to care about a couple of dvds, but then again she seems determined to get them back. Should I take this as a sign that she wants to be in contact with me, or that she just wants her stuff so she can move on.....I'm very confused
lil_angel Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 do exactly waht you said. drop them off at your parents' house and let her get them there. if it was just an excuse to talk to you, she'll keep contacting you and trying to get you to see her and talk w/ her, not just bring htem to your parents'. if she really did want the DVDs, she'll leave you alone after that.
Author longcut11 Posted July 17, 2006 Author Posted July 17, 2006 Thats what I was planning on doing, I think I'm just hoping that she wants to talk to me. It just sucks to think that the last thing we will discuss is some friggin dvds
lil_angel Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 yeah, well, liek i said, if she wants to talk to you taht wont be thet last thing you discuss hehe, she'll make sure of that.
kulyok Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 She's your ex now, and you still like her - you'd like to get back together. But why, if you want her back, do you make it so much harder for her? Your answer - that you were going to drop your DVD's at your parents', but would not meet her in person - your answer just screams at her face you don't want to see you again. She's got her pride, do you think she will beg to take her back, now that her DVD's are at her place again(and if she would beg, would you really like it? A begging girlfriend)? I'd communicate with her and ask her directly what she meant by that. And possibly remind her that you enjoyed your time together and would like to experience it again - but you wouldn't be too upset if she refused. After all, if you can tell it openly here at LS - why can't you tell her?
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