sexymama_401 Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 I have been dating this guy for 8 months and everything is horrible. I feel as though I have moved to fast because after 2 months of dating I became pregnant. Two months after that we moved in together. Lastly, we are constantly fighting and arguing over stupid things. I feel as though the reason why the relationship is not working is because he is very insecure. He is constantly asking me if I am fooling around with my ex's. I have cheated on him once with my second love but it didn't mean anything. I just want us to be happy but I don't think it is possible because he is soooooo psycho. The reason why I haven't left him is because we just bought a house together. What do I do??? Start all over again or ignore all the fighting and the fact that I don't really love him and stay for his money.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 What do I do??? Start all over again or ignore all the fighting and the fact that I don't really love him and stay for his money. And you plan to raise a child in this environment?
alphamale Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 And you plan to raise a child in this environment? apparently so... oh, hi LCB
magichands Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 Lastly, we are constantly fighting and arguing over stupid things. Well... it takes two to argue. Maybe try not to bite so much. If you are going to have a "heated discussion," then try to pick something that's not stupid. Good luck.
rina_r Posted July 27, 2006 Posted July 27, 2006 I have cheated on him once with my second love but it didn't mean anything. I never understood women who do this! They only make the good guys angry and distrusting.
Starr1 Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 Start all over again or ignore all the fighting and the fact that I don't really love him and stay for his money. Wow, talk about a golddigger Well, I guess you know where he stands in your books, it's just too bad he doesn't know the same thing...
a4a Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 I have been dating this guy for 8 months and everything is horrible. I feel as though I have moved to fast because after 2 months of dating I became pregnant. Two months after that we moved in together. Lastly, we are constantly fighting and arguing over stupid things. I feel as though the reason why the relationship is not working is because he is very insecure. He is constantly asking me if I am fooling around with my ex's. I have cheated on him once with my second love but it didn't mean anything. I just want us to be happy but I don't think it is possible because he is soooooo psycho. The reason why I haven't left him is because we just bought a house together. What do I do??? Start all over again or ignore all the fighting and the fact that I don't really love him and stay for his money. First of all...... sheesh...... you are posting that you have only known him for 8 months, cheated, got pregnant, bought a house, and only like him for his money. Right now I would be more concerned about the child (if you are still pregnant). This is not a good situation to bring a child into a world with. If you are having this child you need to go to get some help to teach both of you to communicate for the sake of the child. If there is no longer a child in the picture. Do this guy a favor and move out ASAP.
MsArtful Posted July 28, 2006 Posted July 28, 2006 As a4a said you need to talk your relationship over. It is understandable that with a child on the way, you want financial security. But being in a relationship where there isn't love, financial stability comes at a high price - it will cause you, the father of your child and your child a lot of hurt, as well as loss in your own self respect - the fact that you are cheating this early on in the relationship is not healthy, and possibly due to the fact that you feel trapped by the whole situation. But talk it over, get some help, talk to friends and family - it is your choice.
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