Marlien Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 For a while, I've been unhappy in my present relationship. It's my first relationship ever. My unhappiness has been noticeable, as I have become distant to my boyfriend... Today, he asked me what is wrong with me. I said I didn't really know, since I am so reluctant to break up with him. He's a very emotional person, but his emotions can be shallow at times. He has a few secret relationships going on at the moment, too... He told me not to talk to him until I know why I became so distant. I know it's because I am no longer in love with him, that I merely fell into infatuation with him. And tomorrow, I intend to tell him... I've been trapped for so long, by my own fear. But I am not happy with him and cannot live a lie. I need to know how to tell him in the way that would hurt him the least. I've already done enough harm by waiting so long to do so. We've only been together for three months (tomorrow is the anniversary...), but he became so attached to me. I'm afraid of what he may do. Both of us are only 17 years old, so I didn't expect it to last... But he has a poor history with relationships, always being broken up with. Please, anyone... Give me advice, as I've never broken up before... And I'm scared.
Author Marlien Posted July 17, 2006 Author Posted July 17, 2006 I'm completely surprised... My first break-up was so... Easy! He was actually very mature and sensible about it all. I'm rather shocked, really. But I feel so much better. I just wasn't ready for love, not at this young age.
Shane361 Posted July 17, 2006 Posted July 17, 2006 He has a few secret relationships going on at the moment, too.... Not sure of the nature of his secret relationships but why would it be hard for you two breakup with him if he isnt being loyal in the first place? Just be yourself and explain your true feelings and if you need do it in a public place so he will not do anything you may fear. If he is a man he will deal with it and if not then you def didnt need him and that will make it that much more easier on you to get over him and or your conscience-Shane
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