what to do

[mixed up]

This guy i've been dating since april has been telling me many things lately. We have broken up and gotten back together 4 times in the last 2 weeks. Well he came over the other night to talk after having a wonderful weekend and getting back together. He said a lot of mean and hurtful things to me and then pushed everthing off on how he has mental problems b/c he is so selfish, his words not mine. Well i'm suppoesed to go to this formal dinner with him tonight. I still love him and told him that i want to be with him. I went out and bought a dress and everything. I guess my question is how do i act tonight? Should i just act normal? He has told me that he wants me too...but he just needs to seek professional help because of his commitment issues.

 

Any thoughs would be greatly appreciated!

 

Thanks!

[Tony T]

You have no choice but to go with the flow. Anybody who's broken up and gotten back together with a guy four times in two weeks should have no problem with that. Just act in accordance with what's going on at the time. If he gets nutty or embarasses you, make sure you can call a friend to come get you.

 

I'm very glad he told you he wants you to act normal. That's always nice to hear.

 

Any guy who says mean and hurtful things to you after a wonderful weekend is some kind of fruitcake. So what is it you love about this guy? Why would you want to be with a guy who you must break up with four times in two weeks?

 

Are there any more mentally stable guys in your area?

 

If your guy doesn't seek professional help to get over his mood swings, I hope you will seek counselling to get away from him before you ruin your life.

[dora]

Act like yourself in love with him.

 

This guy i've been dating since april has been telling me many things lately. We have broken up and gotten back together 4 times in the last 2 weeks. Well he came over the other night to talk after having a wonderful weekend and getting back together. He said a lot of mean and hurtful things to me and then pushed everthing off on how he has mental problems b/c he is so selfish, his words not mine. Well i'm suppoesed to go to this formal dinner with him tonight. I still love him and told him that i want to be with him. I went out and bought a dress and everything. I guess my question is how do i act tonight? Should i just act normal? He has told me that he wants me too...but he just needs to seek professional help because of his commitment issues. Any thoughs would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!