xoloxo025 Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 alright well heres the deal i was going out with this guy for 10 months and right before our 11th month anniversary he dumped and he didnt even have a reason as to why he did it. It truly came out of know where. i never in a million years would have guessed that he was going to dump me becaue two nights before that which was the weekend he came over n spent the whole weekend with me and even said i love you so much a bunch of times so i took it pretty hard when he dumped me and am still not over him. he was my first for everything and took my virginity thats why i think its been soo hard for me. well if things arent bad enough he happens to get online last night and i hadnt talked to him in a few weeks so i was actually doing really good on gettin over him so the minute he signed on lmy heart jus dropped n it was like deja vou all over again and i realized i had the same feelings for him still so i decided to talk to him. big mistake..he started talking about his life and he kept brushing me off on everything i said and was talkin about girls and everything so thats basically sayin hes sadly over me well i kinda got hurt when he brought up other girls so i said you are an ******* you dont care about my feelings and i guess you never did and i said you can go f (one of the girls names he said) i dont even care anymore when the truth is i do n did at the time. well go figure he got pissed and we got into a HUGE fight:( he made it seem like he still cared though so i really dont know what to do should i talk to him about it and say im sorry im just not over you or should i just let it go and try to move on and if soo please give me advice on how to move on....any advice or encouragement would be greatly appreciated
somegal1GUST29 Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 It's hard to say given the information you provided..How did he break up with you exactly? What did he say to you? Was he acting distant at all prior to the break-up aside from your last night together (I know that sounds so final), but had you been arguing at any point leading up to the break-up? Based though on what you've written, seems like he wanted to move on to greener pastures & I suspect you are both young but I could be wrong. The only thing I can suggest is that you straight out ask him why? But, be prepared as he may not have the answers you are looking for and he may not have any answers at all to give you period. As aweful as that sounds, it happens quite often & I feel is the worse thing you can do to someone because you leave that person in limbo & which makes it much harder to move on. I hope you find the answers your looking for & best of luck to you
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