violet_21 Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 My boyfriend of 4 years is suddenly secretive about his laptop and shuts it whenever i come into the garage where he has it. He password protected it and never leaves it on or gives me any kind of chance to see it. He's been like this a few months. He gets angry when I ask why, and says he just wants his privacy and that he is not doing anything wrong. He says, how could I have the time or want for another girl when my exwife (that hes seperated from) doesn't know about you yet. He says it would be way too much stress, and that I am being nuts, etc. I know he talks to people on the internet, but he says its just friends and nothing sexual or romantic. He also passworded his cellphone and does not leave it out anymore, and practically locks it up at night, beside his side of the bed, in his drawer so there is no way I can get at it. I am feel totally bad about this.. sad, lonely, confused. Is he cheating. How can I find out when I cannot get into anything. I hate this. He is on his computer all the time, and says he is because hes allergic to the animals and feels better out there. I just feel so frustrated like I can't win and he has an excuse for everything, yet I feel as tho hes lying to me. I need to know whats going on. Pls someone help me, how can I find out?
stoopid_guy Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 There's lots of reasons he could be secretive with his laptop besides cheating, he could be embarrased about porn sites, he could be going to a site like this one to sort his feelings. The cell phone's a bit stranger though. On the other hand, with the cell phone, isn't there a call record on your bill? Um... IMHO, most people won't cheat if they're in a good relationship. How are things in other regards? If things are rocky, and he's just started acting like this, odds are good that he's cheating.
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