Guest Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 I have been seeing my gf long distance AZ CA, for 18 months now. She went on business trip back to Japan for one week and the second week spending with her family. We have talked everyday the entire 18 months but now I've noticed when she is gone, we talk for maybe 10 min a day and it doesn't even seem like she misses me. Is it asking too much to expect more than a 10 min phone call per day. She was busy I understand but if I put myself in her position I would call or email her couple times a day and let her know she is missed. I think two people in love think about each other many times a day, I know I think about her that much, but I dont get the same vibe from her, even when she is home, but now especially when she is off on vacation. In my opinion not talking for a hour everyday like usual she should miss but it doesnt seem that way. Please tell me if I am asking too much of her or being to obsessed. I just thought it was normal to let the other person know when they are thinking about you. anyways, thanks for any advice btw, I'm not an insecure person but it doesn't make me feel good, I don't know if there is a word for it. (not feeling loved)
amaysngrace Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 She went on business trip back to Japan for one week and the second week spending with her family. In my opinion not talking for a hour everyday like usual she should miss but it doesnt seem that way. Please tell me if I am asking too much of her or being to obsessed. I just thought it was normal to let the other person know when they are thinking about you. btw, I'm not an insecure person but it doesn't make me feel good, I don't know if there is a word for it. (not feeling loved) Most likely she enjoys being with her family. When I go to my parents and we are all there, I am more than happy to be home and don't really think of anything other than how happy I am to be spending time with all of them. Question: why didn't you go with her and her family on vacation? That may have something to do with why she views you as a secondary priority. I think what you have is insecurity, although you don't think so. I think you are wondering what could she possibly be doing that is so much more important than calling you. As for her trip to Japan...maybe she was just lost in translation.
magichands Posted July 16, 2006 Posted July 16, 2006 Lost In Translation... love that movie. Hey - a call EVERY day means she thinks of you every day. And probably a lot more to boot.
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